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Need some advice. So here's my situation:
Current sophomore at a top school. Unfortunately, my gpa for the past 3 semesters has not been stellar - it's in the 2.5 range, on track to stay about there by the end of fall term.
The "extenuating circumstances" causing the low gpa include the following:
-- (physical) illness for the past two years, initially mismanaged (both by doc and myself, unfortunately) and is only now on track for proper diagnosis and treatment - but I didn't have cancer or anything dramatic that would catch the attention of adcoms. (and really, just for personal reasons, I'd rather not discuss the specifics of my conditions unless I have to, to "prove" my illness...)
-- the continual struggle and resulting fallout of an abusive and threatening relationship with my parents/family, that started at the end of my senior year of high school and continues to this day (although, finally, security is starting to help me get help) ... again, I'm really not comfortable bringing up specifics and especially
-- anxiety/depression from unrelated personal crises which I don't really wish to discuss ... (I have purposefully avoided a formal diagnosis and/or recorded psych. visits, even possibly at cost of not getting the help I need, just to avoid any negative mark on my mental health records... I am afraid of the implications of that)
My questions ... 1) Are these at all "valid" reasons, or could they be viewed as "lazy" excuses? 2) How/where on my app exactly would I bring these up? 3) In how much detail would I have to describe what happened? Would I have to "prove" it with documentation (e.g. medical or legal records - which, although I'm willing to do if I must, as I said, for personal reasons, I'm just not that comfortable doing ...)
I've been through a lot in the past two years - and part of my heavy anxiety is that I'll "suffer my whole life" and not live the career/life of my dreams, all because of how my I let my "suffering" destroy my academic career early in college (... perhaps an irrational fear?)
Forgive my total ignorance ... thanks a lot.
Current sophomore at a top school. Unfortunately, my gpa for the past 3 semesters has not been stellar - it's in the 2.5 range, on track to stay about there by the end of fall term.
The "extenuating circumstances" causing the low gpa include the following:
-- (physical) illness for the past two years, initially mismanaged (both by doc and myself, unfortunately) and is only now on track for proper diagnosis and treatment - but I didn't have cancer or anything dramatic that would catch the attention of adcoms. (and really, just for personal reasons, I'd rather not discuss the specifics of my conditions unless I have to, to "prove" my illness...)
-- the continual struggle and resulting fallout of an abusive and threatening relationship with my parents/family, that started at the end of my senior year of high school and continues to this day (although, finally, security is starting to help me get help) ... again, I'm really not comfortable bringing up specifics and especially
-- anxiety/depression from unrelated personal crises which I don't really wish to discuss ... (I have purposefully avoided a formal diagnosis and/or recorded psych. visits, even possibly at cost of not getting the help I need, just to avoid any negative mark on my mental health records... I am afraid of the implications of that)
My questions ... 1) Are these at all "valid" reasons, or could they be viewed as "lazy" excuses? 2) How/where on my app exactly would I bring these up? 3) In how much detail would I have to describe what happened? Would I have to "prove" it with documentation (e.g. medical or legal records - which, although I'm willing to do if I must, as I said, for personal reasons, I'm just not that comfortable doing ...)
I've been through a lot in the past two years - and part of my heavy anxiety is that I'll "suffer my whole life" and not live the career/life of my dreams, all because of how my I let my "suffering" destroy my academic career early in college (... perhaps an irrational fear?)
Forgive my total ignorance ... thanks a lot.