Again, I'll reiterate how subjective being labeled "average" can be.
To me it's common sense for adcoms to consider such things as socio-economic backgrounds, and overcoming major hurdles etc. when making their decisions. After all, it's a hell of a lot easier to get 4.0's when you don't have to contend with what many less economically priviledged students must worry about, and address, just to stay in school. Aren't Kaplan courses running around $1K these days? This is just one really small example of the above.
I also believe that the diversity amongst doctors MUST reflect the diversity in the society in which we live. Again, it's just common sense that this is best for our society and ultimately for healthcare. But I also think that disparities should be addressed as early on as possible (WAY earlier than upon admissions to medical school), and that hopefully, as time goes by, some of the AA policies of the recent past etc. will start bearing fruit in terms of decreasing the number of economically disadvantaged minority groups.
I think that perhaps what concerns some "average" white guys (and perhaps some non URM's) is that there seems to be an assumption that just being white means that to be considered NOT average, we must do some pretty "spectacular" things.
Seriously, I'd like some feedback here. Hopefully, my previous posts will indicate that I'm not a touble maker with bad intentions or ill will for anyone. But, just tell me what you think of a personal concern of my own. Try to relate, as I try to relate to others that are different than me. Just be curtious.
In a nutshell, I come from a nuclear family whose annual income was above average. But, when my dad was a kid, HE grew up in a family in which a charity had to provide a Christmas for he and his siblings. My dad had a few years of college (all loans), and dropped out to start a business with his mom and dad. They became successful, and as I grew up, my dad made more and more money etc.
I've had a few recent discussions with adcom people recently. My grades are very solid, but I still need the MCAT.
One thing that I've stuggled with is the level of altruistic expectations that the admin people seem to almost require. But, although I could never qualify for financial aid, I've been expected to work from 15 years old, on. My dad, not unlike many of his generation/demographic, is old school. A "go get a job", pull youself up by your bootstraps kind of guy.
All spending money and any other expenses (a car) were always up to me. In high school, I worked during the week, many weekends, and full time in the summer (a variety of jobs). The same with college. In order to be able to pay for living expenses (gas, insurance, whatever..), I had to work. During winter and spring breaks, I would either work at a ham company (14 hours a day with overtime etc.), or I would help the carpenters frame homes (hauling lumber and nailing down roofs etc.).
During ALL of my summers from late high school, through college, the best way to make money for me was to do construction, or landscaping type jobs. They paid well, and paid overtime etc. We could work a lot of hours, and make some money. It was TOTALLY expected of me to do this.
But when I talk to adcom people, they keep asking "did you volunteer at a summer camp for kids with diabetes?". "Have you travelled abroad to do charity work for poor people?" That kind of thing. Seriously, my dad would have said "how are you gonna pay for your books next year?" Or "what about your car payment... gas??" "Go for it, but don't ask us for money next year".
Look, I'm super proud of my family. And love my dad. He's taught me a ton, and I don't regret my upbringing. It was great, and wouldn't change it for the world.
****I'm not complaining about poor Chris having to work so hard. But the point is that some of the volunteering and charity work that adcom people seem to look for to determine if you are a "worthy" candidate, would have seemed to me more like priviledges than sacrifices. That's what the "rich" kids were doing. My buddies and I were running brick paver crews with mexican immigrant workers. Not, "taking the summer off to help the starving in Chad".
It's just the environment that I grew up in (and I KNOW I'm not alone.) But, is that "average"?? I don't know. I didn't really do anything very exotic. The expectation was to earn money to help cover the costs of college and other things truly necessary. Again, anything else would have been more like a priviledge or something.
Don't get me wrong, I've played team sports all my life (pretty average), and have volunteered at a blood donor center and a hospital (in college), and have recently been doing hospice and ER volunteering. I also do some homeless charity stuff, but this is just very recent as I'm now self-supporting with a good job (a non-trad).
I do worry though, about being a white guy, with great grades and hopefully MCAT, yet still being kind of expected to have done more exotic or altruistic endeavors.
At least that's how the adcoms made me feel in some preliminary meetings. Like, well you're a white guy, so you'll need to have spent a year in the Peace Corps working with the indians of the Nile river in Brazil. Oh, by the way, don't even think of having anything less than a stellar GPA and MCAT. Cause, there's no excuse for you, young man.
Can anyone relate? Easy on the slams. I know it sounds like I'm whining (am I?). But, it's just a few very recent meetings with some state med school admin people that seem somewhat discouraging (in some ways only).
Again, what else can be done to separate yourself from being "average" in the eyes of the admin. commitee?
Be constructive.