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Yes, at some point. If you guys are as hot a commodity as you have described, I would manage it thus: When one of you gets an interview, take the opportunity to get the admissions dean alone and let them know that your partner is also very interested. If you are admitted, they will be more inclined to view the partner's ap positively (they may not, though...). At that point you have to hope that interviews come in at the other local schools. If time goes on with no local interviews, an email to a school where the unaccepted partner is a very good candidate is indicated. At the end of the cycle, if you are not accepted at the same school, you will have to make a decision on how much distance you are willing to tolerate.@gyngyn so for example, if one of us was offered an interview at Cornell, the other should notify Columbia/NYU/Sinai/Einstein?
Psh. Just lol at your narcissistic, junior-undergrad mentality.
Schools aren't going to give a **** about you two and your "all or nothing" mentality unless one of you is about to win the Nobel Prize (and even then).
Really? Well:Hm, I just phrased it like that because former posters with this question made it seem like schools take married couples seriously, as opposed to boyfriends/girlfriends.
Can someone explain why an all or nothing deal is a bad idea?
You are not timing this marriage because of a perceived advancement of your "couple status" to medical schools, are you? If there is any element of this in the planning, please exclude it.Hm, I just phrased it like that because former posters with this question made it seem like schools take married couples seriously, as opposed to boyfriends/girlfriends.
Can someone explain why an all or nothing deal is a bad idea?
I can't wait for the inevitable "how do I deal with being at the same school as my ex-spouse" breakup thread
You are not timing this marriage because of a perceived advancement of your "couple status" to medical schools, are you? If there is any element of this in the planning, please exclude it.
Even the Couple's Match for residency doesn't guarantee same city outcomes.
Wow @gyngyn, I can't help but feel insulted that you would think that. I get that you're an adcom, but not everything in life revolves around med school admissions.
No offense was intended.Wow @gyngyn, I can't help but feel insulted that you would think that. I get that you're an adcom, but not everything in life revolves around med school admissions.
I'm just being realistic.I'm glad this is so amusing for you.
Wow @gyngyn, I can't help but feel insulted that you would think that. I get that you're an adcom, but not everything in life revolves around med school admissions.
No, but a good chunk of the rest of your life does.I get that you're an adcom, but not everything in life revolves around med school admissions.
Yeah, I understand now that that wouldn't go over well. Thanks for the advice!Psh. Just lol at your narcissistic, junior-undergrad mentality.
Schools aren't going to give a **** about you two and your "all or nothing" mentality unless one of you is about to win the Nobel Prize (and even then).
Gyngyn is patiently giving you advice and answering your questions. You're offended by the mere suggestion that that might have been a motivating factor based on how you phrased it? You're a complete stranger on the internet, you're really going to pull a "how could you think that of me"?
I'm just being realistic.
You seem kind of stuck up. My biggest worry would be taking that attitude into an interview and then on top of that asking for a spot for your significant other. As an adcom, or generally as a human being, I'd be put off by that.
They're a medical school interviewing you, they have no obligation to do anything for you....and I wouldn't think of making any moves until after one of you is actually accepted.
The shotgun method is the best approach. Apply to schools in major metropolitan areas.
NYC: NYU, Columbia, Cornell, Sinai, Downstate, Einstein, Hofstra
Philly: Temple, Jefferson, Drexel, UPenn
Boston: Harvard, Tufts, BU
Chicago: Illinois, Rush, Rosalind Franklin, Loyola, Northwestern, Chicago
Etc.
Hope for the best. All or nothing won't work, but if one of you gets an interview somewhere then it may be helpful to let that school know about your situation.
No, but a good chunk of the rest of your life does.