Well, I wouldn't say this is the ideal way to do it.
We actually were not expecting this deployment when we planned this pregnancy. I thought we were being smart about it - so we'd have our family in place before med school started, I could stay home and nurse baby for a year (a big thing with me) and I wouldn't be pregnant for interviews.
So much for planning!! Two months after we got pregnant we found out about this deployment and I've already had to resched two interviews because I'll be too pregnant to fly!! Best laid plans, right?
The problem with having hubby leave when you first trimester is that you are skinny and beautiful when he leaves and bloated, swollen, and REALLY REALLY large when he returns.