This is probably one of my favorite quotes, and certainly my most favorite mathematics quote. It gets to the heart of how to succeed in math: WORK. I'm a math major and that's the only way I got through my undergrad and grad classes. Unfortunately, there are no secret formulas unless you're just plain brilliant (i.e. Good Will Hunting) which 99.999999% of us are not. I'd recommend getting a tutor only after hammering away for a while, otherwise it's a waste of money because you'll generally forget what you learned in that session. I can sympathize with you... Good Luck!!!🙂
As the drill will not penetrate the granite unless kept to the work hour after hour, so the mind will not penetrate the secrets of mathematics unless held long and vigorously to the work. As the sun's rays burn only when concentrated, so the mind achieves mastery in mathematics, and indeed in every branch of knowledge, only when its possessor hurls all his forces upon it. Mathematics, like all the other sciences, opens its doors to those only who knock long and hard. No more damaging evidence can be adduced to prove the weakness of character than for one to have aversion to mathematics; for whether one wishes so or not, it is nevertheless true; that to have aversion for mathematics means to have aversion to accurate, painstaking, and persistent hard study, and to have aversion to hard study is to fail to secure a liberal education, and thus fail to compete in that fierce and vigorous struggle for the highest and the truest and the best in life which only the strong can hope to secure.
-B.F .Finkel