Med school roommate: student vs. nonstudent

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Just curious what your opinions are on roommates, and what the pros and cons are of living with a fellow med student vs. living with another young professional who is not in medical school. I mean it's nice to live with someone who's going through hell with you, but I'm also thinking that living with someone not involved in med school (but understanding of the time commitment med school is) would help keep me grounded in reality.

What are your thoughts?
 
I'd say there are pros and cons on both sides but hope u know the nonstudent well because if they are partier, loud music and u have a test coming up that would suck. I compromise maybe a nonmedical student like a grad student or law student. Open up to new kind of person group of friends but with someone dealing with similar types of life situation.
 
Another good roommate combo is med student and dental student (or grad student) - both are busy and unlikely to bother the other, but you avoid the angst of shared pain especially if you are in the same classes with a roomie at med school...
 
From the med students I've known, two of them didn't like rooming with a non-student at all. They thought it would be nice to have someone with fewer responsibilities so they could pay bills, clean up, get stuff fixed, basically take charge of the things that would be too time consuming for the busy med student to handle.

While that did happen for both of them, it also bred disdain when the exhausted, strung out med students came home to see the roommate still playing Xbox and drinking the last of the beer. I'd want to at least live with someone else deep in academia, and not someone working.
 
After many glorious roommates my conclusion is the best roommate is no roommate at all!
 
What about a two-bedroom apartment? Does that help cut expenses any (vs. living in a 1B, alone) and have any of you had irritating expenses sharing a 2B apartment? I think I'd rather not live *all* alone, in any case.
 
What about a two-bedroom apartment? Does that help cut expenses any (vs. living in a 1B, alone) and have any of you had irritating expenses sharing a 2B apartment? I think I'd rather not live *all* alone, in any case.

Having a roommate should help cut costs.

As for who to live with, only a fellow student or a significant other will truly understand what you are going through and you probably won't have to worry about them partying or being loud the night before a test. In a somewhat related situation, in college I played sports and for awhile had roommates who were not on the team and who would have a bunch of people over the night before we had games. A few times I had to leave my house and sleep on friends' couches. Once I moved in with teammates we were all on the same schedule and all the previous issues vanished.
 
I would have to say that it depends on the roommate's personality than the roommate's profession. I just finished my M1 year and and during that time roomed with both. I started off living with a buddy of mine from high school who now works doing finance stuff. We moved after first semester because we had issues with our apartment being flooded with sewage and our landlord refusing to replace the carpet (by the way, anybody going to Missouri - looking for housing somewhere besides Deer Valley Apts!). Anyway, when we moved, one of my classmates had just broken up with his girlfriend and needed a place to stay, so we picked up a 3 bedroom apartment.

My med school roommate is actually somewhat louder than my professional roommate. We have different study habits and locations (I study at home, he hits the library). I thought that his moving in would motivate me to study more, but it actually just makes me feel guilty when I'm not studying, which doesn't help anything. I'm not saying he's a bad roommate or anything like that, just that you should not expect a med-school roommate to be an automatic study-buddy and empathetic companion.

My professional roommate is very respectful of our need to study, especially around finals. He is very supportive of us when we need to work. He knows enough about medicine (was premed) to take an interest in our stuff, but is disconnected enough that he provides a break from med stuff. This is actually tremendously beneficial. He is also relatively quiet. Despite my endorsement of a non-med roommate, I cannot emphasize enough how bad it would be to have a roommate that isn't considerate of your needs.

Having been in your shoes just a year ago, I know that med school can seem like a huge, daunting challenge that is going to consume your whole life. If you let it it will. Having a roommate that isn't in med school, however, can provide an extremely beneficial break. Think about it. All day at school, you are going to be around med students. Do you really want that when you home at night? Having a fresh face that I can crash and watch TV, talk, whatever with is awesome. I feel that I probably do better in school by not stressing as much because I have someone else I can do stuff with. If you have other friends at the school you will be attending you can hang out with, great, maybe a med school roommate would be good for you. If, however, you aren't going to know a lot of people outside your class, having at least one that you live with will help a lot.
 
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