I'm obviously a mom. My kids were 7 and 2 when I started med school. Pinki hit on a lot of good points that I usually bring up - scheduling your study time - mine was after the kids went to bed until I was done - usually 8:30 to midnight or 1 am. (I'm not as much of an early bird as Pinki I guess, but I can stay up nearly all night without problem). I don't do any of the "social" stuff - all the bars and frisbee golf and such. Most of my friends here in town (we moved for med school) are through my class - so we do our own stuff - shopping time, Sephora time
, mainly stuff we can do either during the day or at my house (my daughter goes to some things with me, but our son has autism so doesn't tolerate crowds or lots of activity predictibly, so we tend to be homebodies). My husband is INCREDIBLY supportive - he's awesome!!! Otherwise, I could easily have gotten into the rut of not spending much time with the kids, but he makes it so easy to do. When I really needed to study on a weekend, he'd make it happen that the house, or at least the upstairs, would be quiet. But it's key to not have to cram, 'cause with kids, you don't have time. Our daughter has even come to class with me several times for lecture or lab (not gross!) when her school was closed for holidays and such - no problems from anyone. She even came while I TA'd some Histo labs. She's thought it's pretty cool that Mom's in school too! Long story short, it's doable, you just have to be organized, which it sounds like you are.