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I have an odd situation, and I would like your input. (Plus, maybe this will entertain you if you are bored.)
So, my father-in-law really wants us to live close to him. (This is a horrible reason to choose a school. The only reason I'm considering it is that my wife can get a better job in that city as well.) Since the only schools in his state are public (some good schools, but have major in-state biases) he has taken it upon himself to call one school's dean of medicine several times on my behalf. I finally found out about this today. I should mention I'm currently waitlisted at this school, and accepted elsewhere.
Today, I found out that I got an interview because he called. According to him they "didn't think I had any real interest in the school." I think they were probably just trying to get him off the phone. Since then, from what I can deduce he probably has called 3 or 4 more times.
1. I'm really pissed at him for doing something behind my back.
2. I think him calling so much sends a weird message, and may have even hurt my chances at the school.
3. If I get in, I feel that the first impression some may have of me is that I'm the son-in-law of that weird man.
Anyway, I called him and sternly told him to stop, and that there was no way in the world I would ever talk to him about my residency choices--that he had lost my trust.
Do you think I should call the school and say anything about him?
So, my father-in-law really wants us to live close to him. (This is a horrible reason to choose a school. The only reason I'm considering it is that my wife can get a better job in that city as well.) Since the only schools in his state are public (some good schools, but have major in-state biases) he has taken it upon himself to call one school's dean of medicine several times on my behalf. I finally found out about this today. I should mention I'm currently waitlisted at this school, and accepted elsewhere.
Today, I found out that I got an interview because he called. According to him they "didn't think I had any real interest in the school." I think they were probably just trying to get him off the phone. Since then, from what I can deduce he probably has called 3 or 4 more times.
1. I'm really pissed at him for doing something behind my back.
2. I think him calling so much sends a weird message, and may have even hurt my chances at the school.
3. If I get in, I feel that the first impression some may have of me is that I'm the son-in-law of that weird man.
Anyway, I called him and sternly told him to stop, and that there was no way in the world I would ever talk to him about my residency choices--that he had lost my trust.
Do you think I should call the school and say anything about him?