waitinggame2020
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Hi everyone! I have been lurking on some of other SDN posts about moving from medical to dental school, and I wanted to give some insight into my situation. I am an M1 who just started about a month ago. However, I’ve been questioning medical school for a couple months. To be fair, I was not admitted to my top choice school from the waitlist which meant I had to move away from my fiancé to another town for about 10 months. I still see him on weekends and he is amazingly supportive, but it’s hard after living together for two years. I am only sharing this because I think it is an important consideration. I lightly toiled with deferring this year but felt like I needed to “get started so I could finish.” Other parts that have me questioning medicine is the overhead with insurance. I’ve heard it a lot from people I shadowed, and I worked my gap year in an orthopedic practice and insurance companies are frustrating and it was frequently disappointing to see them deny care for patients - while dental is less driven by insurance.
There were also a couple people I worked with who were going for PA school but were raised by doctors and their parents kind of guided them away from medical school due to the stress and hours of residency. There have just been multiple voices in the back of my mind that have been saying these things to me and they have gotten much louder in medical school. At orientation, we heard upperclassmen talk about the work they put in and the long hours during clinical rotations and then residency and frankly it’s all very daunting and overwhelming.
As for medical school itself, I am doing fine with the curriculum, so it’s not me wanting “easier curriculum” and I know it’s not “easier.” I also feel “bored” with just studying. To be fair, this is COVID times so we aren’t in clinics, so I am jealous of dental peers who have practical labs where they are working on their skills. I’m a kinesthetic learner so I feel like i need to be “doing” something.
Additionally, I just feel like I value my future time more now than I had previously considered. I shadowed both dentists and physicians in high school/early college, and I ultimately decided medicine because I thought my shadowing experiences were “cooler” I could see them doing things and more of the problem solving process. But I feel like with dentistry, it is harder to “shadow” and see what they are doing. Also, I did not do a good job of asking questions about the lifestyle. I even remember one dentist saying he considered medicine, was pre-med but switched to dentistry for the lifestyle - I shook it off at the time, but now the thought of residency is daunting.
As for ultimate interests, I see myself in primary care type clinic/private practice. I like the idea of “cosmetics” and improving confidence for people in dermatology, which I think translates to dentistry well with less of the insurance issues and possibly no residency.
So my question is, am I more so suffering from “grass is greener” or are these real concerns I need to take time to discover? I am not planning to drop out currently as I know I am still adjusting to medical school and things improve with time but I think I made it clear that it’s not just the “now” I am concerned with but the future with residency in particular. I know I should talk to some dentists and try to shadow if I really want to take next steps in this process, but I just feel the need to gauge the waters of if I should tell myself to stop overthinking everything or really spend time reevaluating my goals. There is a lot going on with long distance relationships, COVID, and new adaptations with medical school so I would love some input. Thanks in advance!
There were also a couple people I worked with who were going for PA school but were raised by doctors and their parents kind of guided them away from medical school due to the stress and hours of residency. There have just been multiple voices in the back of my mind that have been saying these things to me and they have gotten much louder in medical school. At orientation, we heard upperclassmen talk about the work they put in and the long hours during clinical rotations and then residency and frankly it’s all very daunting and overwhelming.
As for medical school itself, I am doing fine with the curriculum, so it’s not me wanting “easier curriculum” and I know it’s not “easier.” I also feel “bored” with just studying. To be fair, this is COVID times so we aren’t in clinics, so I am jealous of dental peers who have practical labs where they are working on their skills. I’m a kinesthetic learner so I feel like i need to be “doing” something.
Additionally, I just feel like I value my future time more now than I had previously considered. I shadowed both dentists and physicians in high school/early college, and I ultimately decided medicine because I thought my shadowing experiences were “cooler” I could see them doing things and more of the problem solving process. But I feel like with dentistry, it is harder to “shadow” and see what they are doing. Also, I did not do a good job of asking questions about the lifestyle. I even remember one dentist saying he considered medicine, was pre-med but switched to dentistry for the lifestyle - I shook it off at the time, but now the thought of residency is daunting.
As for ultimate interests, I see myself in primary care type clinic/private practice. I like the idea of “cosmetics” and improving confidence for people in dermatology, which I think translates to dentistry well with less of the insurance issues and possibly no residency.
So my question is, am I more so suffering from “grass is greener” or are these real concerns I need to take time to discover? I am not planning to drop out currently as I know I am still adjusting to medical school and things improve with time but I think I made it clear that it’s not just the “now” I am concerned with but the future with residency in particular. I know I should talk to some dentists and try to shadow if I really want to take next steps in this process, but I just feel the need to gauge the waters of if I should tell myself to stop overthinking everything or really spend time reevaluating my goals. There is a lot going on with long distance relationships, COVID, and new adaptations with medical school so I would love some input. Thanks in advance!