Meeting Singles in 2015

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ChiTownTownie

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I work for a medical association and from time to time, members have mentioned how difficult it is to meet like-minded people in their hometowns. Reading some of these threads it looks like they aren't the only ones struggling to find love. Of course, everyone suggests E-harmony, Match, Tinder or even hanging out at the bar. For those of us weary of the 'here for one night only' folks on Tinder and those with no time to hold a stake-out at a bar, I'm wondering if we could create a sort of online speed matching on this forum; singles would list their basic info and if someone is interested, they could reach out for more info. I'm thinking this would be a fun and quick way to proactively find someone in 2015! No more 'that would be a good idea' talk, let's try to make it happen 🙂

I'll selflessly get it started 😉

Stats: 5'10, Black female, 31, athletic build, with a sense of humor
Location: Chicago
Field: Marketing
Seeking: Nice guy within the United States who is not a predator or insane
 
I work for a medical association and from time to time, members have mentioned how difficult it is to meet like-minded people in their hometowns. Reading some of these threads it looks like they aren't the only ones struggling to find love. Of course, everyone suggests E-harmony, Match, Tinder or even hanging out at the bar. For those of us weary of the 'here for one night only' folks on Tinder and those with no time to hold a stake-out at a bar, I'm wondering if we could create a sort of online speed matching on this forum; singles would list their basic info and if someone is interested, they could reach out for more info. I'm thinking this would be a fun and quick way to proactively find someone in 2015! No more 'that would be a good idea' talk, let's try to make it happen 🙂

I'll selflessly get it started 😉

Stats: 5'10, Black female, 31, athletic build, with a sense of humor
Location: Chicago
Field: Marketing
Seeking: Nice guy within the United States who is not a predator or insane

This is a good idea.. But are you specifically seeking someone in the healthcare field? I'm just wondering why you chose to come to sdn, out of curiosity 🙂
 
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This is a good idea.. But are you specifically seeking someone in the healthcare field? I'm just wondering why you chose to come to sdn, out of curiosity 🙂

I read the threads from time to time, searching for resources (blogs, tips, interesting news stories, etc.) to share with members. Sometimes, I read the threads for public reaction to some of our policies. Some members have expressed difficulty finding others in the medical field after moving to a different city or town. They suggested it would be nice to have a forum where singles in the same area could meet. I noticed this same idea was suggested on a few threads, but everyone responded with "great idea", "awesome suggestion"... but the idea didn't really go anywhere. So, I thought I would be proactive and get it started. Personally, I'm just looking for someone who can hold a conversation.
 
Gold digger alarm bells going off.

Dead Poets Society slow clap for you. You're a good person for warning your fellow posters. As the saying goes, "if you marry for money, you earn every cent." Not digging for gold; I'm already making enough nuggets from my multiple pyramid schemes 😉. A person with integrity and a sense of humor holds more value to me than one with gold. My post might seem like a scheme, but it is a legitimate idea that was suggested to me.
 
Dead Poets Society slow clap for you. You're a good person for warning your fellow posters. As the saying goes, "if you marry for money, you earn every cent." Not digging for gold; I'm already making enough nuggets from my multiple pyramid schemes 😉. A person with integrity and a sense of humor holds more value to me than one with gold. My post might seem like a scheme, but it is a legitimate idea that was suggested to me.


Who suggested it to you?
 
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I work for a medical association and from time to time, members have mentioned how difficult it is to meet like-minded people in their hometowns. Reading some of these threads it looks like they aren't the only ones struggling to find love. Of course, everyone suggests E-harmony, Match, Tinder or even hanging out at the bar. For those of us weary of the 'here for one night only' folks on Tinder and those with no time to hold a stake-out at a bar, I'm wondering if we could create a sort of online speed matching on this forum; singles would list their basic info and if someone is interested, they could reach out for more info. I'm thinking this would be a fun and quick way to proactively find someone in 2015! No more 'that would be a good idea' talk, let's try to make it happen 🙂

I'll selflessly get it started 😉

Stats: 5'10, Black female, 31, athletic build, with a sense of humor
Location: Chicago
Field: Marketing
Seeking: Nice guy within the United States who is not a predator or insane

Pics?
 
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I work for a medical association and from time to time, members have mentioned how difficult it is to meet like-minded people in their hometowns. Reading some of these threads it looks like they aren't the only ones struggling to find love. Of course, everyone suggests E-harmony, Match, Tinder or even hanging out at the bar. For those of us weary of the 'here for one night only' folks on Tinder and those with no time to hold a stake-out at a bar, I'm wondering if we could create a sort of online speed matching on this forum; singles would list their basic info and if someone is interested, they could reach out for more info. I'm thinking this would be a fun and quick way to proactively find someone in 2015! No more 'that would be a good idea' talk, let's try to make it happen 🙂

I'll selflessly get it started 😉

Stats: 5'10, Black female, 31, athletic build, with a sense of humor
Location: Chicago
Field: Marketing
Seeking: Nice guy within the United States who is not a predator or insane
Do you actually expect this to work?
 
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And to think that when I read the OP I was expecting serious answers. Sigh...... Oh well I might as well play along.

Name: NeedToStudy
Location: sdn
Interests: trolling and vagina's
Seeking: Pure sexiness. She must always be naked. Her goals, character, and personality mean nothing to me.
 
I'm a guy and I met another guy (dental student) in a campus bar. We've been together for more than a year. He's a keeper.
 
Yes! Totally keep going 😀 Or you can start like and funny introduce yourself thread 😉