met with an accident..will i make it for Part 1?

[meghna5]

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hi everyone,

i have mixed feelings writing in this forum after a long time. I had met with an accident around 2 months ago..it left me bruised and shaken...but luckily im alive to tell my story.

Aug 26..the most scariest day of my life. At around 5 PM i decided to do some grocery shopping. It had just started raining and i was driving on a slippery road..suddenly the car hydroplaned and i panicked coz i had never experienced that before..i lost control over the wheel..the car took a turn and skidded off the road..into a golf field on the other side..as luck wd have it..there were no trees to block my way or that wd have been the end of it. I had a few bruises..but nothing broken. i was so badly shaken that i couldnt speak properly for days...had terrible nightmares.. I recovered slowly and have never stopped thanking God for helping me survive this.

Before the accident, I was studying to write Part 1 in Dec. Now i feel I have forgotten everything and dont know where to start.

Gosh, sometimes life is so unexpectedly difficult!

 

[dentaldoc]

hi everyone,

i have mixed feelings writing in this forum after a long time. I had met with an accident around 2 months ago..it left me bruised and shaken...but luckily im alive to tell my story.

Aug 26..the most scariest day of my life. At around 5 PM i decided to do some grocery shopping. It had just started raining and i was driving on a slippery road..suddenly the car hydroplaned and i panicked coz i had never experienced that before..i lost control over the wheel..the car took a turn and skidded off the road..into a golf field on the other side..as luck wd have it..there were no trees to block my way or that wd have been the end of it. I had a few bruises..but nothing broken. i was so badly shaken that i couldnt speak properly for days...had terrible nightmares.. I recovered slowly and have never stopped thanking God for helping me survive this.

Before the accident, I was studying to write Part 1 in Dec. Now i feel I have forgotten everything and dont know where to start.

Gosh, sometimes life is so unexpectedly difficult!

Hello meghna,
Sorry to hear abt your accident....Thank god that it was minor..Don't worry. u will get over with it ..take a break and build your confidence...Don't stress out too much..u can take the cbt when ever you feel confident..

Take care & get well soon

 

[Francisco]

hi everyone,

i have mixed feelings writing in this forum after a long time. I had met with an accident around 2 months ago..it left me bruised and shaken...but luckily im alive to tell my story.

Aug 26..the most scariest day of my life. At around 5 PM i decided to do some grocery shopping. It had just started raining and i was driving on a slippery road..suddenly the car hydroplaned and i panicked coz i had never experienced that before..i lost control over the wheel..the car took a turn and skidded off the road..into a golf field on the other side..as luck wd have it..there were no trees to block my way or that wd have been the end of it. I had a few bruises..but nothing broken. i was so badly shaken that i couldnt speak properly for days...had terrible nightmares.. I recovered slowly and have never stopped thanking God for helping me survive this.

Before the accident, I was studying to write Part 1 in Dec. Now i feel I have forgotten everything and dont know where to start.

Gosh, sometimes life is so unexpectedly difficult!

Reorganize, try deep breaths, think steadily of a positive thing, make it a couple of times a day, close your eyes and go trough every single detail you remember from the accident, but be sure when you do it you do it in peace and having the rational idea that everything is ok, that you are just rehearsing it to slowly let it fade in the past.

this will help you realize and take control of the situation and the post traumatic stress, slowly you will wear off the tension and will look at it more relaxed and positively.

concerning Part 1, start again, it will work as a refresher and will also make you gain confidence on the things you learned before, because you will star remembering faster than you think, this reaction inside of your mind will actually pave the road to a more positive attitude not only towards the exam but to see that you didnt loose that great memory you had before, but also to make the whole situation more familiar to yourself.

these is my advice,

Kind Regards,

Francisco

 

[keepsmiling]

That's why I could not find u on forum for such a long time.

You are a strong person ,aren't you?
you will take care of u & very soon u will emerge to be a stronger person with a die hard attitude to excel in your profession.I am confident about it 🙂
What to say for part 1,its only a small step for your brilliant professional life ahead.
You gonna make it sooner or later,its a matter of time!!!
Good luck! 👍

 

[sreshta]

Itz wonderful that u escaped the accident with minor bruises. God saved u for some reason, may be the reason is to excel in your profession and fulfill ur dreams. Take ur time relax and start studying with easiest subjet that vl boost ur confidence.gl and tc. 👍

 

[ishaan07]

hi meghna
sorry to hear about your accident i know how it feels when such tragedies strike.. i myself had been in an accident along with my family couple of years back which shook me completely.... but good faith and belief in god help me get through that time ... i believe that such things make u come out as a strong person than u were before.... so dont worry u will do great in your exams and dont quit 👍 good luck and may god bless u

 

[babyteeth]

Hi Megna

I am pretty sure that you will do just fine!! Jus try to concentrate real hard on your goals and you will achive anything you want. I know it must be difficult start to study all over again, specially these courses (some of them are very volatil) ,but you know what your memory is going to refresh all.
Just put lot of effort ,the reward will be great!

Wish the best

 

[colgate]

sorry to hear about ur accident,u dont have to stress ur self worrying about the exam.thats y we have the cbt.just decide of a date when u think u wil be ready and the date can be chnged to suit u ,so read at ur own pace.

 

[drangel]

hi megna,,,
dun worry at all. flashbacks n fear r only gonna obstruct yr way to success.
just feel the beauty of life and people around,, u r fortunate to survive so there sud b a reason dat sumthing big n best is instored for u,,, n by making this accident happen in yr life god just wanted u to realise this so dat u boost yrself for a new horizon in a new pattern.
goodluck.
👍 dr angel.

 

[UPSY1]

😍 Hi,
You don't imagine how strong you are! I had a bad accident 3 years ago, and the person who hit us, said only i'm sorry i didn't pay attention to the red light. I was hit in the back and I couldn't move my neck few days. I had nighmares, I couldn't stay in the car. Still i don't have driver licence 😍 . The healling was very slow. After 1 year i still had the back pain. Took me 2 years to forget about this, but still when i am in the car I am very scary.
You will heal. Don't expect to be suddenly. Takes time. You are a lucky person. Consider this just a moment in your life, and go forward.After this you will be stronger and just live your life. Look for a suport group in your community or on internet and when you will hear other story, you will say I am lucky and i will be a good person, to help to heal others.
Good luck!
Don't worry life has many parts good and bad.

 

[pinkindia32]

lots of symapathy for u from ur well wishers.but i would just say one thing.that after the accident u r alive by both physically and mentally.so thyank god for that.stop thinking abt that go ahead in ur like.as always said;'show must go on'. so its still not over.u have one whole month to go.
take care.all the best.

 

[stoic]

are you kidding? you just slid off of the road. deal with it.

 

[Ypo.]

are you kidding? you just slid off of the road. deal with it.

 

[meghna5]

are you kidding? you just slid off of the road. deal with it.

u know what? my first reaction to ur comment was, "oh so u wd have been happy if i had a few broken bones and was left half paralyzed. then maybe u cd have tried real hard to be a little more kind and say a few nicer words. HOW MEAN!"

...but suddenly i was laughing my head off MY WORD...U R RIGHT!!! I was so miserable with the experience and even more with the fact that i was not able to concentrate for my exam which i wanted to write in Dec so badly...that i didnt realise that I had only just slid off the road! DAMN! Of course, im going to deal with it... and u know what? I'M GOING TO ACE THE EXAM!

Thanks a lot, buddy...hey thats not sarcasm...i mean that, ok. Sometimes u just need somebody to be blunt and straight forward like u, to snap back to reality. thanks again.

 

[meghna5]

dentaldoc.....i will try to write cbt in Dec or in Jan. thanks for the support, buddy..it means a lot to me.

Francisco, thank u so much for ur touching words..i loved the way u asked me to THINK abt the accident rather than try to run away from it. that makes a lot of sense. i will do that, thanks buddy.

keepsmiling,..yes, NBDE is not a giant leap...its just a small step thanks 4 ur kind words...yes i am even more determined now!

sreshta, babyteeth, colgate, drangel....the fact that u took the time to boost up my self-esteem even though u dont know me at all...thats what i love abt SDN..we r a family, arent we...thanks all of u!

Ishaan07, UPSY1...im sorry to hear abt ur accidents. But the fact is that u guys recovered and u r back on ur feet. sometimes only ppl who have experienced an accident, however minor it may be, can understand others who have been thru the same. thanks a lot guys..and UPSY1....i think i know what ur next goal is...
to get ur drivers licence... 😉

pinkindia32....U r right...THE SHOW MUST GO ON..! Yes, i will move on...I have to....

Thanks all of u....i really cannot express in words how much better i feel right now.

 

[toothfairy78]

sorr y meghan abt the incident am damn suer uve bounced right back into the heart of htings.u know what GOOD FOR YOU!!anyway i am surprised at he kindness&immediate responses u received ppl care!!wow.imagine what strength all of these members have transferredonto u...thru their wishes.pls pray for them too.all the best guys nice to kno we still have ppl who think with their hearts&not onoly their heads..ok ok enuf senti lets get back to studeis!!!KICK ASS PPL............