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Hello all!
After reading through the posts last couple of months, I decided to ask a question!
I've noticed a writer's brief background helps to have an effective and focused conversation. So here's my brief story.
My experiences
I am an Asian-American male who has BS/BA in Psychology and Sociology as a double major from a state university. I also have a Master of Divinity (M.Div.) from a reputable seminary. In both places, my GPA is about 3.4. After graduating seminary, I received an ordination and gained 3 years of full time ministry experience at a church, working with children/youth and parents. Currently, I am working as a chaplain at a trauma 1 hospital. Although, not directly related with clinical psychology, I believe my experiences add weights to my resume.
Why counseling?
I have always been interested in counseling. As many of would agree, my passion for this work derives from my own narrative. Experiencing wounds and healing have helped me to value this healing work. Counseling is personal and important for me.
Dillema: this is where I hope to hear your thoughts!
During my chaplaincy training, I learned about the family system. It gave me languages in my family dynamics which I was not able to articulate before. It was logical, sensible, and powerful in affecting not only the familial relationships but also relationship with self and others.
Last August (in 2015), I thought I wanted to become a MFT therapist which led me to apply to 2 masters programs in MFT, where I was accepted. However, as I am seriously considering counseling as my future career, I am wondering if MFT is too narrow of a field for me to be equipped as a counselor. I am passionate, eager to learn and comfortable about the family systems, yet when I think about the future, I want to make sure that I am trained in a program with professors who can discover and explore my full gifts. I believe MFT is one part of my gift; I know there's lot more in me.
So, now I am considering clinical psychology. I want to be in a well balanced clinical & research program [3-4 (1 Clinical / 7 Research)]. These are my concerns: 1) Will I be able to get in with myGPA/lack of research experience and get funding? 2) Will I be able to enjoy the program as much as I would with MFT Ph.D./DMFT?
Goal
Many would respond to this dilemma with, "it depends on what you'd like to do." As true as it is, it's been one of the most frustrating thing to hear. Because who the hell knows what I'll be doing in 10 years! haha. I just know that I am passionate about and gifted in counseling and that I want to be in a program who can train me and guide me.
For now, my heart reaches out to clinical work, both with families and individuals. As a preacher, I also know that when I am excited about something, I will want to share about it actively; I do not want to give up on opportunities in teaching (This is part of the reason why I am pursuing Ph.D. instead of just masters). In terms of possible research areas, I am interested in relationships, communications, and families. Especially, I am interested in religious leaders' families and their wellbeing.
I think, with my experiences and passion, I could get into MFT in Ph.D. program. I would also like to apply to Clinical Psychology programs with MFT and Psychotherapy focused staff. (If you have suggestions for these schools, I would love to hear about them as well!)
My real questions
1) I would like to hear from Ph.D. in MFT or DMFT. Do you feel limited in your practices especially dealing with severe disorders?
2) If you become DMFT, are you considered a psychologist? Or are you a therapist with MFT in Ph.D.?
3) In Clinical Psych programs, do you feel well equipped with System theories and practices? It probably depends on the programs. I would love to hear some real experiences. Would you please let me know the background of your program as well?
Thank you for reading and replying to this rather lengthy post.
It's probably best to be succinct. But I wanted to make sure that I put myself out here for focused conversation. =)
After reading through the posts last couple of months, I decided to ask a question!
I've noticed a writer's brief background helps to have an effective and focused conversation. So here's my brief story.
My experiences
I am an Asian-American male who has BS/BA in Psychology and Sociology as a double major from a state university. I also have a Master of Divinity (M.Div.) from a reputable seminary. In both places, my GPA is about 3.4. After graduating seminary, I received an ordination and gained 3 years of full time ministry experience at a church, working with children/youth and parents. Currently, I am working as a chaplain at a trauma 1 hospital. Although, not directly related with clinical psychology, I believe my experiences add weights to my resume.
Why counseling?
I have always been interested in counseling. As many of would agree, my passion for this work derives from my own narrative. Experiencing wounds and healing have helped me to value this healing work. Counseling is personal and important for me.
Dillema: this is where I hope to hear your thoughts!
During my chaplaincy training, I learned about the family system. It gave me languages in my family dynamics which I was not able to articulate before. It was logical, sensible, and powerful in affecting not only the familial relationships but also relationship with self and others.
Last August (in 2015), I thought I wanted to become a MFT therapist which led me to apply to 2 masters programs in MFT, where I was accepted. However, as I am seriously considering counseling as my future career, I am wondering if MFT is too narrow of a field for me to be equipped as a counselor. I am passionate, eager to learn and comfortable about the family systems, yet when I think about the future, I want to make sure that I am trained in a program with professors who can discover and explore my full gifts. I believe MFT is one part of my gift; I know there's lot more in me.
So, now I am considering clinical psychology. I want to be in a well balanced clinical & research program [3-4 (1 Clinical / 7 Research)]. These are my concerns: 1) Will I be able to get in with myGPA/lack of research experience and get funding? 2) Will I be able to enjoy the program as much as I would with MFT Ph.D./DMFT?
Goal
Many would respond to this dilemma with, "it depends on what you'd like to do." As true as it is, it's been one of the most frustrating thing to hear. Because who the hell knows what I'll be doing in 10 years! haha. I just know that I am passionate about and gifted in counseling and that I want to be in a program who can train me and guide me.
For now, my heart reaches out to clinical work, both with families and individuals. As a preacher, I also know that when I am excited about something, I will want to share about it actively; I do not want to give up on opportunities in teaching (This is part of the reason why I am pursuing Ph.D. instead of just masters). In terms of possible research areas, I am interested in relationships, communications, and families. Especially, I am interested in religious leaders' families and their wellbeing.
I think, with my experiences and passion, I could get into MFT in Ph.D. program. I would also like to apply to Clinical Psychology programs with MFT and Psychotherapy focused staff. (If you have suggestions for these schools, I would love to hear about them as well!)
My real questions
1) I would like to hear from Ph.D. in MFT or DMFT. Do you feel limited in your practices especially dealing with severe disorders?
2) If you become DMFT, are you considered a psychologist? Or are you a therapist with MFT in Ph.D.?
3) In Clinical Psych programs, do you feel well equipped with System theories and practices? It probably depends on the programs. I would love to hear some real experiences. Would you please let me know the background of your program as well?
Thank you for reading and replying to this rather lengthy post.
It's probably best to be succinct. But I wanted to make sure that I put myself out here for focused conversation. =)