Agreed. When you're in your mid/late 30's, the house is paid off, 3 cars in the drive way, kids going into high school, all you'd really be concerned about is relaxing and enjoying life. We make a good living, more than enough to cover expenses as long as you don't want an extravagant lifestyle. I learned this first hand from my father, who has been chasing money since his mid thirties. He's 54 now and all he does all day is run his business, fly back and forth to China to solve problems with his business partners over there, and stay up all night worrying about his business. He makes bank, but is it really worth the stress he puts himself through? All he is concerned about is making money. I barely see him smile. He always has his head in his books, or he'll watch tv and randomly swear because he's thinking about business problems instead of paying attention to the tube. Even my older brother and sister, finance and accounting grads, are in on his work. Suffice it to say, family life is not happy.
So you just really have to step back and ask, how much money is enough? What will make you happy? This is part of what pushed me towards this profession. I enjoy it, I'll make enough money to live a comfortable life, and I'll still have plenty of time with my wife and kids.
But hey, you don't have to take advice from a guy in his mid 20's. I'm just letting you know what I've seen first hand because of a constant concern with money.
Sorry, just had to rant somewhere.
I agree with most of what you have stated with one exception...I do believe it is possible to live a fairly extravagant lifestyle as a pharmacist. Pardon my naivete or whatnot, as I recently turned 22 and probably know jack about life, but keep in mind that as a pharmacist, you will be making about $100,000 or more per year. On such a salary, I believe it is very well possible to drive a luxury car if you're into those and own a beautiful condo or house. As a matter of fact, I've spoken to a few pharmacists who have up to 2 houses. That's pretty extravagant, if you ask me. Think about it...the average joe in this country makes about $30,000 per year and many of these people manage to be homeowners with a mortgage and whatnot. Yet, as I've said, they're making only $30k per year. Hell, my father is a 5th grade teacher of emotionally, physically, and intellectually handicapped children, making about $50,000 per year and when he and my mother were together, we would take vacations every summer. Wonderful vacations to Mexico, Puerto Rico, Canada, Europe, etc... What makes you think that making anywhere from 3 to 4 times the average American's salary will not be enough to live a great lifestyle? If by comfortable you mean simply being able to pay bills and have a little money left over, then I don't believe that's very comfortable at all.
A comfortable lifestyle to me means being able to enjoy a deluxe vacation every once in a while, drive a luxury vehicle, and own a nice home. I don't see why it is not possible to live such a lifestyle as a pharmacist. We are in the top 15% of salaries. I see people making "only" $60,000 and they can afford a Mercedes-Benz or even Jaguar.
Now, if you prioritize family and want to punch out two kids or more, then that's a different story. Having two kids or even more will surely drain your financial resources and all of your hard earned money will go into raising children as opposed to being able to enjoy yourself. Personally, if I ever get married, I'd have only 1 child so I could still afford a great lifestyle. But, like I said, if you have 2 or more kids, then surely, I can see why you will not be able to afford an extravagant lifestyle. In that case, I guess it just comes down to choosing what's more important to you in life...having a family and spending your resources on one and not being able to afford a life of indulgence or having only one child but being able to enjoy the great material things in life.
I have read posts here on SDN about pharmacists who make reference to their lifestyles. Some own a viper, others have beautiful homes, etc... I sincerely don't understand why pharmacists can't live such a lifestyle if you even read about it here on sdn.