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I would really like to hear from vets who are parents and what your experiences are like. My biggest dream/goal in life is to raise a family, with being a veterinarian my second. My mother was a stay-at-home mom who always made us homemade meals, drove us wherever we needed to go, and never missed a sports game/concert/etc.. I obviously won't be able to do all of that as a working mom and I fear that my career might make me the complete opposite, which is why I would love to hear about your experiences.
I also am nowhere near ready to have children, I just like to plan ahead/have an idea of what's coming and see if anyone has any advice. I am starting vet school this fall and my SO and I are planning on getting married sometime during vet school. As of now, I really want to be a small animal gp with my own practice someday. When I finish vet school I'll be in my mid 20's with lots of debt - basically my SO's salary will cover living expenses while my salary will go towards loans. I would like to have my first kid before I'm 30, when I've had about 3-4 years as a practicing vet and have paid off a good bit of loans.
So just some general questions... When did you have your first child - during vet school or how many years out? Who looked after your child once you returned to work? Has having children changed your professional goals? What work schedule has been ideal for you as a parent? Do you find that you are able to interact with your children enough and provide them the emotional support they need? Thank you in advance for your responses
I also am nowhere near ready to have children, I just like to plan ahead/have an idea of what's coming and see if anyone has any advice. I am starting vet school this fall and my SO and I are planning on getting married sometime during vet school. As of now, I really want to be a small animal gp with my own practice someday. When I finish vet school I'll be in my mid 20's with lots of debt - basically my SO's salary will cover living expenses while my salary will go towards loans. I would like to have my first kid before I'm 30, when I've had about 3-4 years as a practicing vet and have paid off a good bit of loans.
So just some general questions... When did you have your first child - during vet school or how many years out? Who looked after your child once you returned to work? Has having children changed your professional goals? What work schedule has been ideal for you as a parent? Do you find that you are able to interact with your children enough and provide them the emotional support they need? Thank you in advance for your responses