I'm a pre-veterinary student, and my son will be about 3 when I begin vet school (assuming acceptance from my first app cycle.) We will have to move at least across state if not out of state and my husband will be hard pressed to find a job (no real formal training for much) in both towns that are reasonable for us. I think he can do it, but I worry. He has suggested me going a few months before them, and getting settled until he finds a job, but with a young child, that sounds horribly sad. What say you?