This is one of the most important questions I've ever asked myself, so bear with me!
I'm a 24-year-old guy who graduated with a psychology degree back in 2013. Since then, I've had a very good few years figuring out what I would like to do as a career. This included a year discerning a religious vocation in Chicago (I ultimately felt called to marry, and hence leave the formation program) and a year as an AmeriCorps VISTA member (which I'm doing now).
I thought I had my future figured out: I would get an MSSW (from UT-Austin, which accepted my application), and have a rewarding career helping people in need. My plan was to be a LCSW and focus on counseling or therapy, perhaps moving into private practice.
And then I met an amazing woman. Both of us want to have a large family, and she wants to be a stay-at-home mom and homeschool her kids, which I think is fantastic (but if she changes her mind, that's fine too). We were talking about the finances of marriage and family life, and I realized that while 50K or 60K is a decent median salary for clinical social workers, it may not be enough for a single income earner. Hence, I started to reconsider social work simply on salary grounds. (Helping others is a wonderful calling, but (A there are more ways to help others than social work, and (B what good will I be as a social worker if I can't support my own family?)
And then I reconsidered social work on another ground: I wondered (PLEASE bear with me, I mean no offense to social workers -- many of you are living saints and I am a naive 24-year-old) if social work would make full use of my academic and intellectual ability. I had a 2310 SAT score (760 math, 770 critical reading, 780 writing). On the GREs, I got a 169 on the verbal section, a 5.0 on the analytical writing section, and a 160 on the quantitative reasoning section. (I didn't study extensively for this test, and I believe it showed on the quantitative section.) If nothing else, I think these scores, along with going to a school where the acceptance rate is about 20% and finishing with a 3.63 GPA, show that I have the potential to do well in medical school. I did reasonably well in the hard sciences in high school, but I didn't excel, either (I was thinking of pursuing creative writing at the time, and I had very little interest in hard sciences. Also, in full disclosure, I dropped out of calculus, but I was going through a difficult period at the time that I've since resolved.)
I have a tendency to take the easier way out, to avoid opportunities for fear of failing, and to doubt myself. I desire to diagnose and treat mental illness, and social work seemed to be the 'easier' path. I now recognize that psychiatrists can offer a wider range of treatment options than can social workers, counselors, therapists, and psychologists. In that case, part of me asks: if I really want to help people overcome mental illness, why not go 'all the way'?
In a very broad, almost philosophical sense, I would like to push myself to the fullest in an intellectual and academic sense. I want to make full use of the talents and gifts that I have, and to be able to serve those with mental illness to the greatest extent possible. I think medical school, above practically any other field, will make that possible.
But I realize that psychiatry would be a long, expensive, difficult road. It would involve a post-bac (since I only took one hard sciences course in college), four years of medical school, then four years of residency. I would be 'all done' by 35, at the earliest. As someone who wants to have a large family, that would entail having kids pretty late (and inevitably limiting our family size). It would be asking a ton of my future wife too; she would have to provide for me and we'd probably have to wait to have kids.
Then again, I would still earn much more over my career as a psychiatrist than as a social worker, even if I started the former much later. And supposing that I retire at 65, my starting medicine five years later would mean the difference between a 35-year career (if I went into medical school right out of college) and a 30-year career (if I started my post-bac in 2016). That's not a huge discrepancy, and I think those 5 'in-between' years will have been well spent.
The 'red flags' I see in my case are threefold: (1 I don't have much intrinsic interest in the natural sciences, (2 aside from a very brief spell in college, being a doctor hasn't really appealed to me, and (3 the financial side is a significant factor in my decision. I don't wish to become rich, but I'd like to be able to support 5, maybe 7 kids, on a single income.
I discussed all of this with my girlfriend; her brother is in his second year of medical school and will marry in December, and she's in nursing school -- so she's well aware of the downsides of the medical field. I also talked about it with my mom and dad, and briefly discussed the idea with my sister. My girlfriend and mom both thought it was worth exploring; my dad and sister, meanwhile, didn't think it was a great idea. My girlfriend and dad both suggested that I look into an MBA. At this point, I have very little interest in business, but I realize it's something I should look into.
At this point, my questions (for you) are:
1. Does medical school/psychiatry seem like a good career choice, or am I just being idealistic/foolish?
2. What are my post-bac options, specifically in Texas (where I'll have in-state status come February 2016), and what should I be doing right now to prepare for the post-bac and the MCAT?
3. When can I realistically expect to complete my residency? Does 11 years/35 years sound like a good estimate?
4. Should I be worried because I don't have a burning passion for the natural sciences, or because my interest in being a doctor is coming pretty late?
Thank you so much for your advice and help.
I'm a 24-year-old guy who graduated with a psychology degree back in 2013. Since then, I've had a very good few years figuring out what I would like to do as a career. This included a year discerning a religious vocation in Chicago (I ultimately felt called to marry, and hence leave the formation program) and a year as an AmeriCorps VISTA member (which I'm doing now).
I thought I had my future figured out: I would get an MSSW (from UT-Austin, which accepted my application), and have a rewarding career helping people in need. My plan was to be a LCSW and focus on counseling or therapy, perhaps moving into private practice.
And then I met an amazing woman. Both of us want to have a large family, and she wants to be a stay-at-home mom and homeschool her kids, which I think is fantastic (but if she changes her mind, that's fine too). We were talking about the finances of marriage and family life, and I realized that while 50K or 60K is a decent median salary for clinical social workers, it may not be enough for a single income earner. Hence, I started to reconsider social work simply on salary grounds. (Helping others is a wonderful calling, but (A there are more ways to help others than social work, and (B what good will I be as a social worker if I can't support my own family?)
And then I reconsidered social work on another ground: I wondered (PLEASE bear with me, I mean no offense to social workers -- many of you are living saints and I am a naive 24-year-old) if social work would make full use of my academic and intellectual ability. I had a 2310 SAT score (760 math, 770 critical reading, 780 writing). On the GREs, I got a 169 on the verbal section, a 5.0 on the analytical writing section, and a 160 on the quantitative reasoning section. (I didn't study extensively for this test, and I believe it showed on the quantitative section.) If nothing else, I think these scores, along with going to a school where the acceptance rate is about 20% and finishing with a 3.63 GPA, show that I have the potential to do well in medical school. I did reasonably well in the hard sciences in high school, but I didn't excel, either (I was thinking of pursuing creative writing at the time, and I had very little interest in hard sciences. Also, in full disclosure, I dropped out of calculus, but I was going through a difficult period at the time that I've since resolved.)
I have a tendency to take the easier way out, to avoid opportunities for fear of failing, and to doubt myself. I desire to diagnose and treat mental illness, and social work seemed to be the 'easier' path. I now recognize that psychiatrists can offer a wider range of treatment options than can social workers, counselors, therapists, and psychologists. In that case, part of me asks: if I really want to help people overcome mental illness, why not go 'all the way'?
In a very broad, almost philosophical sense, I would like to push myself to the fullest in an intellectual and academic sense. I want to make full use of the talents and gifts that I have, and to be able to serve those with mental illness to the greatest extent possible. I think medical school, above practically any other field, will make that possible.
But I realize that psychiatry would be a long, expensive, difficult road. It would involve a post-bac (since I only took one hard sciences course in college), four years of medical school, then four years of residency. I would be 'all done' by 35, at the earliest. As someone who wants to have a large family, that would entail having kids pretty late (and inevitably limiting our family size). It would be asking a ton of my future wife too; she would have to provide for me and we'd probably have to wait to have kids.
Then again, I would still earn much more over my career as a psychiatrist than as a social worker, even if I started the former much later. And supposing that I retire at 65, my starting medicine five years later would mean the difference between a 35-year career (if I went into medical school right out of college) and a 30-year career (if I started my post-bac in 2016). That's not a huge discrepancy, and I think those 5 'in-between' years will have been well spent.
The 'red flags' I see in my case are threefold: (1 I don't have much intrinsic interest in the natural sciences, (2 aside from a very brief spell in college, being a doctor hasn't really appealed to me, and (3 the financial side is a significant factor in my decision. I don't wish to become rich, but I'd like to be able to support 5, maybe 7 kids, on a single income.
I discussed all of this with my girlfriend; her brother is in his second year of medical school and will marry in December, and she's in nursing school -- so she's well aware of the downsides of the medical field. I also talked about it with my mom and dad, and briefly discussed the idea with my sister. My girlfriend and mom both thought it was worth exploring; my dad and sister, meanwhile, didn't think it was a great idea. My girlfriend and dad both suggested that I look into an MBA. At this point, I have very little interest in business, but I realize it's something I should look into.
At this point, my questions (for you) are:
1. Does medical school/psychiatry seem like a good career choice, or am I just being idealistic/foolish?
2. What are my post-bac options, specifically in Texas (where I'll have in-state status come February 2016), and what should I be doing right now to prepare for the post-bac and the MCAT?
3. When can I realistically expect to complete my residency? Does 11 years/35 years sound like a good estimate?
4. Should I be worried because I don't have a burning passion for the natural sciences, or because my interest in being a doctor is coming pretty late?
Thank you so much for your advice and help.