Fair warning. This will long winded but I cut down as I could
I have been hesitant to do this because it is already pretty easy to figure out who I am by posts and I am a fairly private person, but after reading about other residents treatment at programs I really just want to shine some light on how wonderful MUSC is and also receive some catharsis along the way.
I am married and my wife and I have always managed to do things the hard way for some reason beyond us (married just before I started med school and she Law school simultaneously). We found out were were going to have a child 2days before match day when we also found out we were going to be leaving our home state for South Carolina. In order to save money for our pending new child, my wife stayed back while I moved for the first 3months of residency which were the med wards months. During week 3 of residency I got the news from my wife that they found a serious cardiac defect with my child on sonogram. We were devastated and apart, but my wife had family and friends who really stepped up and helped. I called my chiefs who immediately helped go to bat to get me some time off to process things and I came back to work within a few days to get myself busy. Our program director found out and personally called me in for a visit to make sure I was okay and to also offer the programs support telling me my first priority was my family.
Fast forward 3 months. My wife is now with me in SCAR and I going to take an overnight call and am working on an inpt psych unit. My wife ends up going into labor while I'm in the ER and we are not term yet so we were very unprepared. We have multiple people on call (3) at a time and my fellow residents offer to cover the rest of my shift which means extra work for them. I email my chiefs and the PD and PC who essentially tell me, we'll fill out the paperwork and take care of things, go be with your family. They absolutely did just that. They spoke with my current team and all my future teams prepping for the possibility of me taking off since my son will require multiple operations, without me having to ask. My current team also fully supported me taking off which not only the fellow picked up work, but the attending also took care of part of my work so that I did not need to worry about it.
These are but a few of the examples of things they have done for me. There have been multiple calls to/for me, residents (including 4th years) offering to cover calls, fellow interns cooking meals, friendly words of encouragement. Throughout it all I have always felt like the program has had my back and will continue to do so. My story is far from over but things could have been infinitely worse had I not had this level of support.
There are many reasons to want to come to MUSC from research opportunities to fellowships but I can't think of a greater resource that MUSC offers to residents than it's outstanding faculty, residents and staff. I have been wonderfully blessed to be here and can't picture any other place I would rather be. Thanks for reading my lengthy story and I hope someone else benefits from it.
I have been hesitant to do this because it is already pretty easy to figure out who I am by posts and I am a fairly private person, but after reading about other residents treatment at programs I really just want to shine some light on how wonderful MUSC is and also receive some catharsis along the way.
I am married and my wife and I have always managed to do things the hard way for some reason beyond us (married just before I started med school and she Law school simultaneously). We found out were were going to have a child 2days before match day when we also found out we were going to be leaving our home state for South Carolina. In order to save money for our pending new child, my wife stayed back while I moved for the first 3months of residency which were the med wards months. During week 3 of residency I got the news from my wife that they found a serious cardiac defect with my child on sonogram. We were devastated and apart, but my wife had family and friends who really stepped up and helped. I called my chiefs who immediately helped go to bat to get me some time off to process things and I came back to work within a few days to get myself busy. Our program director found out and personally called me in for a visit to make sure I was okay and to also offer the programs support telling me my first priority was my family.
Fast forward 3 months. My wife is now with me in SCAR and I going to take an overnight call and am working on an inpt psych unit. My wife ends up going into labor while I'm in the ER and we are not term yet so we were very unprepared. We have multiple people on call (3) at a time and my fellow residents offer to cover the rest of my shift which means extra work for them. I email my chiefs and the PD and PC who essentially tell me, we'll fill out the paperwork and take care of things, go be with your family. They absolutely did just that. They spoke with my current team and all my future teams prepping for the possibility of me taking off since my son will require multiple operations, without me having to ask. My current team also fully supported me taking off which not only the fellow picked up work, but the attending also took care of part of my work so that I did not need to worry about it.
These are but a few of the examples of things they have done for me. There have been multiple calls to/for me, residents (including 4th years) offering to cover calls, fellow interns cooking meals, friendly words of encouragement. Throughout it all I have always felt like the program has had my back and will continue to do so. My story is far from over but things could have been infinitely worse had I not had this level of support.
There are many reasons to want to come to MUSC from research opportunities to fellowships but I can't think of a greater resource that MUSC offers to residents than it's outstanding faculty, residents and staff. I have been wonderfully blessed to be here and can't picture any other place I would rather be. Thanks for reading my lengthy story and I hope someone else benefits from it.
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