fallenangel said:
everyday i wake up and want to vomit because i am to the point of hating school so much i can't breathe. i have two interviews at my state medical schools, but deep down i feel as if rejection is inevitable. my classes SUCK, pchem and exp. biochemistry should be wiped off the face of the earth, and i cannot bring myself to do a bit of work to benefit my lifelong dream of being a physician. my mother is constantly on my back about this whole process, only because she knows i have wanted it for so long and so much, but she is part of the slew of individuals who i will have to face should i ultimately not make it to medical school. for the first time in my life, my future is uncertain and i do not know what to do. i am so fed up with school and responsiblility, i just want to drop out. is anyone else feeling this way, or am i in need of some medication?
FallenAngel, I was in your exact situation in 1997. I wanted nothing more than to become a physician and applied to medical school in 1997. I did not gain acceptance. It thought to myself "life is over, what am I going to do?"
The problem I had was I went from high-school, to college, with the idea that I'll just go straight to medical school like so many people. 8 years of high school and college tends to not offer you any perspective of what there is to do in this world. So logically I felt depressed and torn apart because what do you do if you can't pursue your dream?
I considered applying again but I retook the MCAT and didn't do any better (in fact, one point worse.) I ended up going to grad school and becoming a software engineer for the past 6 years.
Well, was I ever wrong. Life does go on. I had no clue. Looking back at everything, I have no regrets about how things turn out and was not mad at myself for feeling despondent. However, I was just unable to see how things could turn out. I'm now married, have a 10 month old son, worked for some great, cool companies, living in posh San Francisco, made a fairly sized amount of money.
And now I'm applying back to medical school. I've never my dream escape me and now I'm much better applicant than I was 8 years ago.
So I would recommend to you to please keep your chin up. Do not waste your forthcoming months and try to accomplish the tasks before you, whether it's school or work or whatever. You may or may not get in, you don't really know at this point. But you will go on and have a wonderful life despite what happens with medical school. Maybe you'll apply again the following year. Maybe you'll apply in 5 years. Maybe you'll never apply again. Whatever you do, there is so much to life that you probably can't see right now.
Lastly, the thing I hate most about applying to medical school is the fact that it makes you think that there is nothing more important in this world. We all contribute to that maniacial craze, all of us on SDN. I'm starting to feel that now and believe me, I've been through many more crazy, stressful, and ultimately more difficult tasks than getting into medical school. But when you read these boards and hear about people with a 3.8 and a 35 MCAT wondering if they are going to get into Yale...it just makes me sick because I question whether they think it's the most important thing to get into Yale? What happens if they end up at a lesser school? I've have on a few occasions abandoned SDN for about a week, but I do come back for specific reasons. I don't show anyone my MDApplicants file anymore because, in the grand scheme of things, I think it does more to hurt than to help.
Take a step back, don't read these boards for a few weeks, concentrate on school, try to take youself out of the medical school craze. Fortunately I've been able to do that because I have a family and son and other things to take care of. Hang out with your friends just take a step back. Things will come into better focus when you don't have the feeling of vomiting.
Good luck.
BTW, my entire personal statement is about my first and now second attempt at medical school. If you're interested in reading it to get some perspective of where I've come from, let me know and I'll send it to you. (private message me)