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BurberryDoc: You're absolutely right in that I need to keep my mouth shut about this kind of thing while I'm in medical school (or even afterward). This isn't the type of subject that would make for polite dinner conversation. That's why I created a second account to make this post. I don't want my friends knowing that I feel this way because I have friends from all across the board.
I admit that my initial post in this thread simplifies the differences between the top 5% and the middle-class. As for not providing constructive commentary: trust me, I would have provided some had there been any constructive commentary to suggest. I wrote this piece up hoping to spark some lively discussion where there might have been some solutions being thrown around. I think it's important to bring up your complaints even if you don't have a solution because someone else might - man is a social and collaborative being - what I cannot see, you might.
When you went through and dissected the OP, you did a fantastic job of providing anecdotal evidence about your own case. Thank you very much for that. Your story is indeed inspiring. However, you pretty much completely failed to address the main point of the post. Let me reiterate it for you here:
Right now, it is MUCH EASIER to make yourself a competitive applicant for medical school (High grades, MCAT, research, volunteering, etc.) if you come from a wealthy background. There are a disproportionate amount of students from wealthy households who attend medical school. I am not suggesting in any form or fashion that it is impossible for those who are middle class to gain acceptance to medical school. I am only saying that it is much, much harder.
I guess I'm a fool then. I know plenty of privileged students of average or below-average intelligence who have taken a year off to improve their application. You call me a fool, yet you don't present any evidence to the contrary. Your second sentence is just anecdotal.
There you go again with the anecdotal evidence. I assure you that you in the minority if you spent 4 months fundraising to send kids to Guatemala. I can offer anecdotal evidence of my own: at my university, all of the students I know who go on these medical missions have their parents pay for them.
I prefaced that paragraph with "here's an example." Typically, what follows are sentences describing that one particular experience. I talk elsewhere in the post about how I believe that upwards of 50% of my class seem to have their medical education paid for by their parents. That is a piece of information that has helped shape my perspective of my medical class.
Again with the anecdotes. These unavoidable calamities which may or may not help someone empathize better don't simply occur to rich or to the poor. They occur uniformly across the board. If you control for these negative experiences, I firmly believe that someone who is middle-class is more likely to be able to empathize with a patient who is unable to afford their medical treatments or is laid off from their job. I am not judging an individual, I am judging a group. INDIVIDUALS experience things such as MS or giving birth to disabled children. However, THE ENTIRE MIDDLE CLASS wrestles with affording rent, mortgages, bills, layoffs, etc. They are more relatable (empathic) to the common man because they ARE the common man. I think this is an entirely fair statement to make.
Things like failing out of medical school or not completing medical school or getting into an accident are things that can happen to anyone, rich or poor, and are rarities. Those should not stop us from being able to make broad generalized statements that apply to the MAJORITY of people within a certain group. The fact that there is an exception doesn't mean that there shouldn't be a rule. If that were the case, Orgo would be a nightmare - eek - exceptions everywhere!
Sigh. The point is, I am writing about an observable fact, and you're throwing in your observations based on your own experience. I am saying "most apples are red," and you are saying "some apples are yellow."