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Hi, I have a question about having kids during residency. As my handler states, I am a non-traditional student. I am a 25 year old woman who will be applying to med school this fall. If all goes well, I will matriculate next year and will be 30 at graduation. Then there is the minimal three years of residency for primary care and 5+ years for specialties.
My worry is when will/should I have kids? I know residency requires long hours but I also know having your first kid after 35 is risky and might not be possible. So I don't want to delude myself into thinking I can wait until until i'm 40 and use fertility drugs etc....
I'm assuming most in this forum have survivied medical school and are in residency, I am hoping you guys can give me insights on this issue.
My mother is in a field where she constantly comes into contact with doctors and she says the docs she knows tells her it's perfectly doable with kids.
My parents both had demanding careers growing up so I have no qualms about working while my kids are young, I know that as long as the time spent with my kids above a threshold level, my kids won't feel neglected---and please no need to turn this into a SAHM vs working parent debate, my mom balanced a fulltime job with motherhood just fine, so I will follow her secret formula for success
So, what are your thoughts on motherhood and residency? I want people to list the negatives, and the positives of when to have kids, as well as suggestions of which residency are good for people with family. Parents, please reply!
My worry is when will/should I have kids? I know residency requires long hours but I also know having your first kid after 35 is risky and might not be possible. So I don't want to delude myself into thinking I can wait until until i'm 40 and use fertility drugs etc....
I'm assuming most in this forum have survivied medical school and are in residency, I am hoping you guys can give me insights on this issue.
My mother is in a field where she constantly comes into contact with doctors and she says the docs she knows tells her it's perfectly doable with kids.
My parents both had demanding careers growing up so I have no qualms about working while my kids are young, I know that as long as the time spent with my kids above a threshold level, my kids won't feel neglected---and please no need to turn this into a SAHM vs working parent debate, my mom balanced a fulltime job with motherhood just fine, so I will follow her secret formula for success
So, what are your thoughts on motherhood and residency? I want people to list the negatives, and the positives of when to have kids, as well as suggestions of which residency are good for people with family. Parents, please reply!