need advise....

[Dental Girl]

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Hello:

I am not sure I am asking right question. Some may not like my question at all.

My brother have very good money want to get married to ( basically less money--not working) girl. She has three siblings. They do not have good jobs. They are stuggling with money.

My brother asks me he is bit concerned about Girl may support her siblings financially after she get married. She may not just take my brother's money and give it to them, but atlest once she starts working she may do it. my brother do not have problem, afterall they are her silblings. but his worry is helping may cross limits because there is huge gap between familes regarding money.

So he thinks he need to address this before marriage to know what she/her family expectations on this issuse.
He also thinks better to talk now instead of having misunderstandings later in life. sorry for long story.


My questions are
1) Is it good idea to ask. ( it is sensitive matter and what immpression they get on my brother)

2) how to address this issuse.



I will appreciate for your thoughts.
Thanks

 

[Tiagao]

OP: I think your question is alright. I mean, you are only concerned about your brother. That's fine. I also think that talking about finances is VERY important to a marriage, both prior to and during. Many a couple have split over financial distress or disagreement. 🙂 I guess to sum it up, Yeah, have your bro talk to his lady politely and sincerely. Best of luck to all of ya.

 

[llort]

two pieces of advice:
1. it is your brothers life, not yours. butt out.
2. take a grammer or writing class

 

[Blake]

two pieces of advice:
1. it is your brothers life, not yours. butt out.
2. take a grammer or writing class

Last time I checked, it was spelled ''grammar'', but English is only my third language, so what do I know ?

 

[toughlife]

two pieces of advice:
1. it is your brothers life, not yours. butt out.
2. take a grammer or writing class

Give him/her a break, he/she is asian.