non-doctor husband needing some help

[chocomorsel]

I see nothing wrong with separate finances in a marriage. The baffling thing to me is the both of them paying not only expenses, but an actual salary to her mother for raising the child and defending it because she apparently needs an income. That is bonkers. Maybe a cultural difference, but one I've never heard of.

Just because you’ve never heard of it, doesn’t make it “bonkers”.
You sound very closed minded.

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