I wouldn’t say I got into an elite school, but I got into the top medical school in my state, which was my #1 overall choice out of the three schools in my state. It took me three years to do all the pre-requisites, working full time, and eventually, studying for the MCAT. I didn’t worry about min maxing, I just did what I could to get by. I took classes wherever, in whatever form I could. In the end, I got a nice scholarship and I’m going to be an MD without leaving my family behind. I think being a non traditional is a great asset, lean into it.