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I'm sorry to be saying this, but it sounds to me like you're blaming the school for something that was essentially your own fault. The truth is, medical school is difficult. It is VERY difficult. And not everyone can handle its rigors. Yes, NYCOM has a very strict policy, but who came here expecting it was going to be easy? I don't think it's right that you're prancing around and badmouthing the school that accepted you and gave you the chance to become a doctor, more or less scaring off other potential applicants from applying or even attending.
So you had a problem with anatomy, and that's very understandable. But we entered with 313 in our class. What about the other close-to-300 students who passed anatomy and did just fine? Did they watch autopies prior to med school? Did they all take A&P beforehand? Were they all 'acclimated' to cadavers? No. We knew what we were going into when we accepted the offer of admission. Whether it's a cadaver at NYCOM or a cadaver at any other DO school, it's all the same: a cadaver. NYCOM didn't fail you. You failed you.
I'm sorry that this happened to you, and I think that your entire endeavor to get back into med school is very admirable. I wish you luck and hope that you will get what you wanted in the end. Just don't start blaming a school for following its policy. And don't start blaming it for your own misfortune. Not everyone passes.
Don't get me wrong, NYCOM has a lot of kinks. I'm not having the time of my life here either, and I wasn't expecting to. But NYCOM has made a name for itself, and it has obviously been doing something right in the past. Picking a school for an easier failure policy isn't exactly the right mindset to begin school with, don't you think?
I think the two main points that I was trying to make were:
1. Try to prep yourself for cadaver anatomy because no one knows how they'll react to it, whether it be via autopsies, coursework, whatever as anatomy is a massively important subject.
2. It is easier to get the boot at NYCOM than at most other US medical schools. After only two systems (recall you must fail two systems to be dismissed) it sounds like your class has already discarded 15 or so students. After putting so much into getting in on the students part, and so much effort being invested in selecting you on the school's part - it just doesn't make sense to me that you wouldn't get a chance to redeem yourself/ I understand that if a student keeps failing the same classes multiple times or repeats a year and still has issues, but don't people deserve a second chance under these circumstances? ALL other medical schools I have had contact with handle this situation a different way...
By the way, lets recognize that this after just the FIRST TWO systems, with neuro (widely considered to be harder than the first two) on the horizon. They're already almost at 5% attrition ... I would REALLY like to get my hands on some actual stats on this, how many are kicked out and how many are transferred in to mask it.
Let me end this post by just saying, I blame myself for everything. First for not preparing myself adequately and second for not researching schools' policies beforehand. What happened to me is ENTIRELY and in every way my own fault. I am not trying to badmouth the school as far as academics, because the professors really are great and care, but the sad fact is they are powerless when it comes to this. My purpose here is to just let people know what they're getting into. When I relate this story to interviewers at other schools they find it extremely hard to believe. I was outright called a liar to my face a couple of times and I have to refer them to the handbook to verify what I'm saying (this was followed by perfuse apologies). The wide perception is that it's VERY hard to fail out of medical school. This is because in general, it is. There are a few schools where it is markedly easier to be removed. NYCOM is one of them and you should know that going in.
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