You guys are very funny. MacGuyver has about 300 posts, he made two bad posts and fire was rained on him. Quaileggs passed a bad comment, she was exonerated in the light of her previous posts. Besides the double standard I wish to clarify the differnce between MacGyver and Quaileggs.
Macgyver made a bad statement, he later clarifies that statement A was only a joke. In effect, taking it back but others have accused him of simply trying to rehabilitate his image.
Quaileggs makes a bad statement about a GROUP of people, due to the actions of one person in that group. She comes back to say that she found the situation/event humorous
as a means of softening the blow of her initial statements.
The two scenarios are NOT the same.
One person has taken back the offensive statement the other person only sees humor in what offended her but stands by her offensive statements. She doesn't REALIZE that others shd not be called BRAINDEAD just because of something a middle aged woman did. Especially, given that the old woman probably couldn't have known any better.
My judgements stands and i am tempted to repost the abominable statements she made.
Yes, this is the internet all we have are the written posts. Hence we can comment on individual posts without passing a judgement on character. I insist that a sum of 300 posts would not shed much light on a person's character. I would never judge a post based on previous posts and my judgemnet would always be of the post and not the person. It is not important for me to know what your husband or kids think about you. If you are going to stereotype a whole group of people to be brain dead and not take it back because you feel the situation is actually funny, I don't care that your hubby thinks you are an opinionated goddess of love. I shall stick to my guns. What you said about the old-lady was horible. What you said about your neighbors was terrible. Your unwillingness to take those words back is shameful. The people defending you need to read your original post again.
SMW, if a person wins my apology, I'll give it to them. Don't be so quick to accuse me of being quick to judge. I found a statement offensive. The poster stands by her post. Meanwhile, the statement continues to offend me (not the person). Where is the need for apology. Why shouldn't she apologize to me. Come on you are the grand member, let your judgements be fair.