Mr Furious,
Actually you don't get in immediately by applying on the wet spot, the only way is for an on-the-G-spot acceptance. This is much harder to achieve. I'de like to wish you luck with your other harem applications, but which is your top choice? Have you thought about sending a letter of intent? Don't forget that this is a two way process and you, as an applicant, have as much right to demand to see their "rotations". A good set of "rotations" can make all the difference in being satisfied with your harem experience. I understand lady-in-red is a relative new harem (shes only 20 and been married since 16 so...). I also don't know what kind of financial package she can offer. Have you tried your state harem? I don't know where you are located but you might consider relocating to Nevada, which has a large number of in-state harems. Also how are your numbers? I hear you need at least an 8.0" to get in, however, being "well rounded" can compensate for poor numbers....also, are you a URM? This can help in some cases. Finally don't forget, if your good with your hands, you could always be a DO instead.
Good luck! Keep us posted.