Long-time lurker here,
I'm a first-year clinical PhD student who recently moved to a new area and wants to meet new people. I've been thinking about giving online dating a try, but I keep worrying about a future client (or, to a lesser extent, an undergrad I TA for) finding my profile and learning lots of personal information about me. For example, OKCupid asks questions about personal habits, sexual interests, religion, politics, alcohol/drug use, and a million other things I would never want to disclose in the therapy room (or any other professional context). I'm usually pretty careful about the information about myself I make available online, but the whole point of online dating is to share something personal with strangers. Although these sites allow me to make my page visible only to other members, that doesn't provide much security, since anyone can sign up for an account. Of course, it would be much harder for a client to "look me up" through a dating site than it would be via facebook, but it doesn't seem totally beyond the realm of possibility that a client could stumble upon my profile.
Have any of you tried online dating? Did you worry about a client/student/colleague finding your profile? Did you take any extra steps to make your profile more private (e.g., avoiding uploading pictures)? Or am I worrying about nothing? Thanks in advance-- I'd love to hear your thoughts/experiences!
I'm a first-year clinical PhD student who recently moved to a new area and wants to meet new people. I've been thinking about giving online dating a try, but I keep worrying about a future client (or, to a lesser extent, an undergrad I TA for) finding my profile and learning lots of personal information about me. For example, OKCupid asks questions about personal habits, sexual interests, religion, politics, alcohol/drug use, and a million other things I would never want to disclose in the therapy room (or any other professional context). I'm usually pretty careful about the information about myself I make available online, but the whole point of online dating is to share something personal with strangers. Although these sites allow me to make my page visible only to other members, that doesn't provide much security, since anyone can sign up for an account. Of course, it would be much harder for a client to "look me up" through a dating site than it would be via facebook, but it doesn't seem totally beyond the realm of possibility that a client could stumble upon my profile.
Have any of you tried online dating? Did you worry about a client/student/colleague finding your profile? Did you take any extra steps to make your profile more private (e.g., avoiding uploading pictures)? Or am I worrying about nothing? Thanks in advance-- I'd love to hear your thoughts/experiences!