IDK the hardest STEM quizzes I had still have averages of about 3 or 4 out of 10, your buddies might just be saying "don't let it get to you if you do badly on one", if the average is like a 0-10% your professor shouldn't be teaching. Studying hard for prelab and doing that poorly is a huuuuge red flag too. Can you provide us more details about your classes and your suspected shortcomings? it's critical information for us to help you.
We're about a month into it, first lecture midterm coming up in a week. It is 15% weekly quizzes (two get dropped), 60% exams (there are three) and 25% lab. Of the lab grade, which is overseen by a different professor, it is 15% quiz (randomly given, so far we've had one every class though), 15% notebook/safety/technique/results, 30% reports/postlab (one or the other per experiment), 10% midterm (only one), 30% final. The two exams will have both a practical and written portion.
My first solution is to get the most up-to-date textbook. The edition I'm using is supposed to be fine, but last week a key explanation was hundreds of pages away from where it was supposed to be. That will help me find what I'm supposed to be studying, but I know it must be a whole lot more my fault than the book's.
I know this shouldn't be taking 10 hours, so I guess my problem must be time management, but I've never really had a problem with that in the past. I don't feel like I'm slacking, but...
As for the lab quizzes, I'm getting the "what is the purpose of this chemical/step" stuff write, it's the "what ions will be in the solution" when the prelab and book only really talked about the beginning reactant and end product, not the stuff in between. Stuff that, given more time (and maybe a chair), I could reason out but can't in the circumstance. Perhaps this is partially a skill that will develop over the course of the semester, but I'd like to think I have the ability to do better now.
I try and work both in groups and alone. I go to office hours 2-3 times a week. I'm understanding lecture and can help my friends, and I'm doing the lab work correctly, but my grade just isn't there.
I'm gonna nose to the grindstone, but any advice on time management, prioritizing, lab reports, whatever would be greatly appreciated!