Overwhelmed from the thought of moving?

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I am just paralyzed with stress here. We closed on our house in Knoxville on Wednesday. I've packed some stuff, but have much more to do. We are planning to make the move on Friday, and here I sit...not packing...not obtaining more boxes....not doing a dang thing to help myself.

Ok, some deep breaths, and onward I shall march toward packing all of this **** up.

I envy those of you who got it together and did it. I am really having trouble.
 
Talk about stress. How difficult is it to find a place to live 3 weeks before school starts when you have 2 rotties? VERY!
 
ALWAYS trust AAA directions (I have done many cross country drives this way).

NEVER trust mapquest...........

OK, cool. Thanks for the tip. I'll keep the AAA ones on the top, then!

Thanks, Jen, I'll avoid 76 too.

👍
 
i thought the easy part was going to be once the pod was packed and gone... just go through whats left and donate or trash it... well for whatever reason this has become hell on earth... i probably should have got a dumpster... not sure how i am going to get rid of all this crap that has accumulated... i have already made like 10 trips to the salvation army 🙂

2 days and counting until the drive... my fingers and toes are crossed that I can get this place cleaned in time!! I wish I didnt know and like the landlord (she is a vet I worked for for a few years and wrote me a spectacular LOR) because I would just give up my security deposit and leave the house as is 🙂

good luck to those still struggling to finish up!!!!! this sucks but it will soon be over 🙂
 
i just finished up. i think. with two 16.5' kayaks on the truck, which is packed, and then towing a 5x8' trailer (which was fun attaching, especially when your truck isn't wired for lights). i drive an escape hybrid. pray that my suspension doesn't give out going over the rockies.

CA or bust, tomorrow at noon.

i only hope that western is everything it's been touted to be (despite its large number of traditionalist critics).
 
My belongings are now officially in Columbus! Actually all things went pretty smoothly. Good luck to all of you the next few days!
 
Good luck to everyone with long drives ahead of them. Give yourself plenty of time and prepare to have to stop if you're traveling in hot weather. Even the newest and most reliable of vehicles can have trouble in hot weather. I don't envy those of you driving across the country with animals in tow but think about how exciting it is to be starting the next chapter in our lives.

I'm preparing for a big move myself into our first home and even though its only 80 miles away, I know its still going to be a pain in the a*@. We're downsizing and since we moved into our current place, we've gotten married which automatically means you acquire a ton more crap. How many casserole dishes can a person really own? and will my friends and family ever know if I donate that George Foreman grill and cake pan to GoodWill? I hope not. And even the one hour drive with my cat screaming her head off the entire way is long enough.
 
OK, I've spent the last 3 days packing up my house. Tomorrow, we hit the road for Knoxville. We are traveling with 4 dogs, 2 cats, a guinea pig, and a snake. Wish me luck!
 
OK, I've spent the last 3 days packing up my house. Tomorrow, we hit the road for Knoxville. We are traveling with 4 dogs, 2 cats, a guinea pig, and a snake. Wish me luck!

don't forget 2 kids... 🙂

safe travels, critterfix! i set out saturday (right after i take my mom's cat and sister's ferret to the clinic - i think i'll get some ace just in case for my own cats)
 
My belongings are now officially in Columbus! Actually all things went pretty smoothly. Good luck to all of you the next few days!

Where are you living Jen?
 
Well my parents are coming to help me pack tomorrow, and I've planned my own going away party, so I guess this is really happening. Crazy, isn't it? I got my second mailing from UTK, so I've put all my classes, exams, etc. in my personal calendar. It's beginning to feel real now. Whoa....
 
Why am I checking this thread instead of packing up my apartment?? 😕😕
 
Hope everyone made it to their destinations safely. So, since this weekend seemed like the big moving weekend for everyone, is there anyone that hasn't moved?
 
Of course, I was supposed to move today, but the movers called me yesterday at 4 pm to tell me that they were already in Philly. So I flew down there at 90 mph while they waited, had to call the landlord to get my keys and operate the freight elevator, and it was a huge huge hassle. I didn't have time to pack anything, so I couldn't even plug in the A/C because all of my extensions cords are at home. You can bet I left as soon as the movers did, what a pain in the ass.
 
Of course, I was supposed to move today, but the movers called me yesterday at 4 pm to tell me that they were already in Philly. So I flew down there at 90 mph while they waited, had to call the landlord to get my keys and operate the freight elevator, and it was a huge huge hassle. I didn't have time to pack anything, so I couldn't even plug in the A/C because all of my extensions cords are at home. You can bet I left as soon as the movers did, what a pain in the ass.

And they couldn't have waited til today when you were actually suppose to move!?
 
Just south of the med center. I'm really excited about my new place! How about yourself?

I got a condo off of Kenny (up near Henderson). It's about 5 miles away from the vet school, but I don't get to move in until September 1st!
 
I am also apparently one of the few that has not moved yet. I will move stuff in on the 21st (the first day I have access to the apartment) but am not moving myself out until the 24th.

I am going out to get furniture this week so I have something to sleep on when I get there! By the way any suggestions on mattresses--ie companies that deliver or creative ways to put them in your car?

Good luck all!
 
i made the 2000 mile trek from MA to Ft Collins last week... I have to say the road trip was sort of fun... though from Illinois through Wyoming, it was pretty much the same site... corn, corn, oh, did I mention corn 🙂

The cats did pretty well... though I did have to break out the Ace for one of them... I put both cats in one of those pop up kennels from Walmart (the large size) and it worked really well....I stayed at 2 LaQunitas and they were awesome...

Oh, and anyone that still has yet to move and haven't gotten some sort of moving thing, I cannot stress how FANTASTIC ABF's Relocube was!!! They were super nice, arrived on time, so much better than worrying about driving a UHaul X-country, very affordable.... if you do get one, don't freak when you see the small box.... its absolutely amazing how much stuff you can pack into one of those (especially if you are good at Tetris!)

Good luck to those still left to move!!!

Oh, and for a mattress idea, I have a select comfort bed and they pretty much collapse into nothing and can be moved in a sedan if necessary (and if you buy one they will ship them to you in UPS boxes)
 
the wal-mart pop up thing was great. it worked for my two cats (medium size).
target sells the same stuff, packaged differently, but identical product, for more money. (they also have a tent for dogs that's adorable).

i am in kansas and i am homesick... but gotta get through this. cats and bird made the trip fine. hubby is already back home, so, that's the hard part.
 
I made it to Knoxville with all but the fish and the hermit crabs. My husband and best friend left me amid hundreds of boxes this afternoon. It's quiet and lonely and I am soooooo tired.

But I made it!
 
Just in case any of you are watching this thread and not the main board, thought I'd re-post my moving experience here:

Just don't want to let what's happened to me happen to you! My mom chose my moving company so I wasn't really involved (she was paying for it as a gift). Man, do I regret that now.

My mom was promised verbally that my stuff would be in Kansas on August 2. "Don't worry about the fine print," she was told. "Your daughter's going to vet school--that's fantastic--I'll make sure it gets there on August 2." The whole reason for being delivered so early was, of course, so that I could unpack and get completely settled at KSU by the time orientation starts on August 13.

To make a long story short, I still don't have my belongings. They are telling me it'll be at least another week. As an example of their lack of professionalism, I was told to "come down here and make me give you his name" when insisting on the name of someone's supervisor. However, it doesn't end there.

Doing a simple Google search on the company--Capital Moving Group--reveals that they have changed names several times and are in the habit of illegal practices, including trying to extort hundreds to thousands of dollars more at the time of delivery, threatening to hold goods hostage, failing to deliver goods, etc. I am terrified of what is going to happen if/when they finally get here, but have done my research and have printouts of the appropriate laws to show them. Also, I will have a police officer present during the unloading of my belongings.

I have been sleeping on an air mattress for a week. I have none of my familiar belongings and am feeling utterly displaced. This company is registered with the BBB with a "good" reputation simply because, like many moving companies, they repeatedly close their doors and re-open under a different name with a different DOT number before complaints can be processed and traced. This clears their record.

Please please please--DO NOT let what happened to me happen to you. Verify that the company is in good standing with the Federal Motor Carrier Safety Administration (FMCSA). Go to protectyourmove.gov and read all the appropriate information. A website I've found to be very helpful is movingscam.com.

Orientation starts Monday, August 13 and classes start Monday, August 20. If and when they do eventually arrive, I'll either be missing a day of orientation or one of my first days of class of veterinary school. Our first exam is August 31.

I have been trying to get into vet school for six years and I feel like the beginnings of my professional career are being jeopardized by this scammy moving company.

PLEASE BE CAREFUL!!!!!!

Needless to say, I'm a ball of stress at the moment. My boyfriend flew home last Sunday--he was here for a few days to help me get moved in (what a joke that turned out to be, and our last few nights together were on an air mattress). I miss him terribly and all of my friends--I feel very alone right now and, for the past several days, want to burst into tears at any given moment.

However, I've been running almost every day (thank god for endorphins) and my roommate and I had a good time out for drinks last night. Also, bought my first plane ticket home for a visit, so there's a light at the end of the tunnel! Sending cards to my boyfriend and my friends has also helped--for some reason, just the act of putting something in the mail makes me feel better. I highly recommend it!

I'd like to say that if I were able to feel settled/prepared for vet school, I would be feeling SO MUCH BETTER right now. However, with the absence of anything familiar around me, it's really taking its toll!!!
 
Alright, I waited to post on here because I'm not full-out moving. That is, we're keeping the house in AZ, so I just need to bring enough stuff to last me 10 months in MN 🙂 But soon (it was actually supposed to be today) my sister's gonna help me drive two cars (my mom wants one) up to MN, and in my car will be my stuff and my 3 (large) dogs. Joy! Fortunately, the dogs and I have made the trip every summer so my 3 girls are really good about just going to sleep in the car. Unfortunately, with taking two cars this time, my sister and I can't switch off drivers and thus can't do the 28 hour drive straight through. It's been awhile since I've taken my dogs to a hotel... fingers crossed I can manage to keep them quiet after being cooped up in a car for 14 hours so we don't get kicked out into the night!

The other...fun... part of this trip is I'm not 100% certain my car's gonna make it. It's a Honda, so it's tough, but I took it in to get new rear brakes and axle boots on Wed. When I pick it up the guy tells me a list of about 5 things that are "normal" for new brakes, so "just keep driving" he tells me. Well immediately my brakes get weird (specifically my ABS brakes kick in when we're nowhere NEAR slippery ground), and a day later my transmission starts getting weird, until I'm driving home at midnight and it completely fails on me. After taking it to a different place, I find out the first place didn't replace my axles correctly (and, actually, they put in axles that were poorly made and therefore didn't fit at all), hence the brake weirdness, and my poor transmission. They checked out my tranny and said they think it didn't get ruined, but it's unfortunately a bit of "time will tell".... let's hope if it does fail it's not when we're in the middle of our trip!!!

Oh, and with all this car fun... I haven't officially started packing... *Sigh* Perhaps I should stop typing on this forum and get to it? 🙂
 
So my parents are coming today to help me organize. And tomorrow the movers are coming. And what am I doing? Posting on SDN. I may even go and read the pre-allo forums just for giggles. 😉 It won't seem real until I am in Knoxville Tuesday. Unpacking all my stuff. AHHHHHHHH! This is nuts, nuts I tell you. I mean a week and 5 hours from now, I'll be getting my white coat and it'll be official. I'm going to be a vet! Yay!!

BTW, what am I going to do for the two days I am without internet? NO SDN! That's even scarier.
 
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