Awesome! So we dig down a little deeper into mechanisms like you allude to above, and we see that majority of all this is theoretically based on what we know about N&V (like you mention vomit center, etc.), what we know about the drugs, and trial results of how these drugs improve XYZ symptoms (e.g. nausea)... then fill in the gaps with theory ("XYZ med improves nausea when given to patients likely via this pathway").
Let's flip back to more of the literature, with now a look at specific points addressing the drugs you mentioned:
In regards to benzo sedation:
In regards to propofol:
So, as you suspected, there is indeed the theoretical basis of mechanism on paper lined with the witnessed efficacy in practice on living, breathing patients. As unsatisfying as it might be, the answers aren't 100% there yet.
You make an important point which is also worth revisiting: if we are sedating these folks, isn't that increasing risk of aspiration? I imagine it might depend on who you ask. I feel it is "yes and no". You are right, a person that is not intubated, that vomits while sedated to whatever RASS is less likely to protect their airway to the extent they would without any sedatives on board -- therefore there is increased risk of aspiration in a sedated patient that vomits.
However, the sedation in this matter is itself being administered to stop the vomiting to begin with... as you read above, there is a large sensory and psychological component to N&V. Being sedated (theoretically) tackles the issue from that angle. Also, as you know, these palliative patients are often very sick and weak, perhaps with dementia, and not protecting their airway well at baseline. With refractory N&V in these patients, it is just a waiting game until they aspirate, this is of course ignoring the elephant in the room of suffering the actual sensation of nausea and corresponding decrease in QoL when it becomes refractory (huge focus of palliative care, right?). So, if the patient does not get satisfactory relief with first line, second line, third line, XYZ line medication approaches, then comes the option for what you described "palliative sedation" with drugs such as benzos, propofol which work theoretically via the mechanisms we discussed a couple paragraphs up, for the reasons we discussed a few sentences up. Sedation, in a vacuum, increases risk of aspiration when vomiting is inevitable; however, the regimens we are discussing are to hopefully prevent the vomiting and, therefore, the aspirating to begin with. It always circles back to benefit vs risk.
Good review:
The sensation of nausea is a common occurrence with diverse causes and a significant disease burden. Nausea is considered to function as a protective mechanism, warning the organism to avoid potential toxic ingestion. Less adaptive circumstances are ...
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