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I hate complaining or seeking advice or venting about this but I can't keep this inside anymore. My boyfriend whom I've been living with for a few years (3 total yrs together) keeps publically taking credit for my grades I have been getting in school. At first I thought he was just joking especially when I told him I got a 4.0 this semester and wow yay I'm kinda proud of myself!
Here's a little about me just to back track. I left college maybe 5 years ago stopped and have been working full time ever since I am still working but have found the time to go back to school full time as well to finish up my classes and get my premed classes all nice and done. This was my first semester back and I'm sorry but I do feel proud of myself for getting As this semester especially having not been in school for years.
Back to the story,
My boyfriend keeps bringing up the fact that I wouldn't have gotten a 4.0 if it weren't for him. Now he didn't do my tests or my homework or write or assist me with any of my papers. I asked him a few questions in a math class and because of this he feels it is okay to tell all of his family his friends and my friends that he is the reason why I have such high grades.
I decided to sit down with him calmly and tell him how I felt about this and I am sorry but it does hurt my feelings. I take school very seriously and I know I have a long road ahead of me but I made this goal for myself and I accomplished it! I am proud and I shouldn't have to hide it. He said he will not stop taking credit I have along way to go I need to chill out I'm too sensitive and I shouldn't be proud.
I am just numb now and don't really care. I'm gonna do me for me as anyone else should. I guess I just needed to vent. It's my time baby and I'm going to keep getting those 4.0s!
Good luck everyone!!
Here's a little about me just to back track. I left college maybe 5 years ago stopped and have been working full time ever since I am still working but have found the time to go back to school full time as well to finish up my classes and get my premed classes all nice and done. This was my first semester back and I'm sorry but I do feel proud of myself for getting As this semester especially having not been in school for years.
Back to the story,
My boyfriend keeps bringing up the fact that I wouldn't have gotten a 4.0 if it weren't for him. Now he didn't do my tests or my homework or write or assist me with any of my papers. I asked him a few questions in a math class and because of this he feels it is okay to tell all of his family his friends and my friends that he is the reason why I have such high grades.
I decided to sit down with him calmly and tell him how I felt about this and I am sorry but it does hurt my feelings. I take school very seriously and I know I have a long road ahead of me but I made this goal for myself and I accomplished it! I am proud and I shouldn't have to hide it. He said he will not stop taking credit I have along way to go I need to chill out I'm too sensitive and I shouldn't be proud.
I am just numb now and don't really care. I'm gonna do me for me as anyone else should. I guess I just needed to vent. It's my time baby and I'm going to keep getting those 4.0s!
Good luck everyone!!