He had a very frugal life style, old car, and 0 luxuries, 1 bedroom apartment for him and his girlfriend. He works like 7 days a week too. He has amazing hand skills too. He does almost everything and it's not afraid to work hard for the money. I have to be honest, I think his girlfriend helped him too you know with expenses. The point is that is doable to pay it off, or at least to drop it considerably to an amount that is manageable. I think those 6 months of grace period are crucial too. The interest is not accruing yet for those that have previous school loans that are subsidize, those are the first loans to paid off.
Another story I was told, this one was from a financial aid officer at a school I interviewed. It's going to be kind of messy to explain. In summary, this guy started dating a D1, and he was a D4. He graduated, and told the financial aid officer, "i am going to have all my debt paid in 4 years before she graduates." 4 years forward, they met again during her graduation, and he tells the officer, "Guess what? I paid it off, and you know what? I am going to have hers paid off in the next 2 years?. He did, according to the financial aid officer.
All I am saying it's don't let the money or the debt crumble your dreams. Just think that you own certain amount of money, and that is your debt. Work towards managing it, and live your life.
My friend an engineer with debt, he told me the other day, "we are paying for everything that we would not afford to buy if we would not have gone to school," and he is totally right.