Thank you for the advice, BUT let's say it doesn't look anything like a tuxedo and isn't over the top, is it still out of the question?
It will be my first suit and I feel like I should pick the one that looks the best on me while also still being conservative and fitting the occasion. I didn't even notice the lapel (nor know what a lapel is) until the guy mentioned it. I more like it because of the shape. I guess I just want to know if I am not dressed pretentiously or psychotically, would it be alright to look slightly unique? Kind of like how people are wearing bow ties now, although I wouldn't do that.