is tufts really considered middle tier? i've only heard great things about it and that it was up there as one of the top schools... am i misinformed?
You are not misinformed. It is very highly regarded. I am sorry if I offend those attending UPenn, but I'm afraid that outside of Philly and those applying/attending Penn, it really is not considered an ivy league and many people even confuse it with Penn State. I applied there and was accepted and really loved it, but I knew that if I really cared about being considered to go to an "ivy", I'd constantly have to defend that it IS an ivy to people who didn't really care one way or another. The ONLY people who knew or knew its reputation were either alumni or, like I said, from the area.
Penn is an EXCELLENT school....I just think if you're going because it IS an ivy (which is really just an athletic association), you may feel that you're paying back 2000/month for 30 years for something that patients would have trusted regardless of where you go.
I also got into Tufts, by the way, which is VERY highly regarded, just like Penn. I ended up going to Buffalo for many reasons, one of which is that I'll save around $150,000. Whichever way you cut it, that's 150,000 sooner you're done paying off your loans!
As for which of the two I'd go? I grew up in Mass, so i was looking for a change....also, my dad went to Tufts and I somewhat wanted to blaze my own trail...for those reasons at least, I was leaning towards Penn (almost sent in my deposit.) Those are BAD reasons for declining a school, so I'll add that another big factor was that the Tufts students seemed a LOT more stressed than the other schools I interviewed at...they couldn't really say what they did for fun besides study, and though they seemed REALLY well-prepared when they graduated, I was looking for more of a balance between work and play. I guess I'm just not that serious! But it's an excellent place. Penn had some drawbacks, too...like there seemed to be lines waiting for clinic chairs and I saw a bit of a desperation to prove itself, but I was very impressed with it overall.
If you choose either one, you've made an excellent choice! Also inquire as to which scholarships you'd be eligible for, since both are extremely expensive in expensive cities. And don't forget that a 330K education while living in a niceish apartment will be 2000/month for 30 years! So be smart as you plan your living standards! Again, you can't go wrong with either one.