What do you think guys to have a face to face encounter at the next ASA meeting? I am almost sure that you guys have more in common than you believe right now...We know how we look 🙂 so it will be easy to find each other.
I'll buy.
2win
What do you think guys to have a face to face encounter at the next ASA meeting? I am almost sure that you guys have more in common than you believe right now...We know how we look 🙂 so it will be easy to find each other.
I'll buy.
2win
Pride. Apologizing can be particularly hard for men because it involves the admittance of fault. Its hard to say that we messed up. That we were wrong. Our pride gets in the way. Embarrassment. If we messed up royally, doing something truly boneheaded even though we knew better, it can be difficult to talk about it to the person we hurt or let down. We feel stupid and would rather pretend like it didnt happen. Anger. Things that need apologizing for are rarely a one way street (more on this later). We probably did something wrong, but the other person probably did too. And sometimes our anger over how they offended us is so great that we justify what we did and cant get past it to apologize. The antidote to all 3 obstacles? Humility. The reason we put up these walls is that we have an overinflated view of our true selves. Were always right; we always have it together. But it aint true. Were human. We mess up sometimes. You have to accept your imperfection as a part of life. Suppressing it will cut you off from others. Embracing it will allow you to grow as a man."
That is such a great site, that I only found out about from SDN like a month ago. I love how their 45 Manly Hobbies include Blacksmithing, Magic, and Computer Programming, amongst many other awesome ones.