Desperado, I think some of your points don't necessarily apply to a lot of real estate markets. For example:
4) I can leave at any time.
I've signed many, many leases and they all said a minimum of 60 days notice was necessary, and even then, they could still collect rent from you until your lease was up unless they could rent your apartment right away. I don't consider that being able to leave at any time.
no hassle buying the place. I showed up in town 48 hours before residency started, and had plenty of time to get a place.
In most in-demand markets, you would be extremely hard pressed to find a decent place where you can move in within 48 hours.
7) The tax benefits aren't that much on a resident salary.
This is true, but on a resident's salary even a little bit helps. Although I agree that the tax benefit is disappearing since the standard deduction is going way up.
8) Itemizing is a pain in the ass.
I don't find itemizing to be difficult at all. It's like two lines on your 1040 Schedule A.
9) Landlords drool over the prospect of having a responsible person who pays rent every month living in their place. They'll bend over backwards to keep you happy for 3 years....Rent only gets jacked up each year if you don't know how to use the fact that you are a "responsible person that they want living in their place cause you take care of it, don't use drugs, pay your rent etc."
Again, in an in-demand market, many landlords could care less as long as you pass a credit check. They won't care about signing 2-3 year leases since they can easily jack up the rent and turn the place around quickly.
Remember, the house has to appreciate enough to make up for inflation, realtor fees, and additional expenses you pour into the house. It takes time to do that unless you are in a very hot market.
I am in by no means a "very hot" market or neigborhood, but judging by houses that have sold nearby, I think could about break even now after owning the house only 1 year.
2) Equity is overrated...Not to mention that extra few bucks a mortage usually costs over rent.
Depends on the market again. In my case, rent for my 1 BR apartment was virtually identical to the mortgage for my 4 BR house. Of course utilities and upkeep cost more, but you're comparing 1BR to 4 BR here. And like I said previously, with rock-bottom interest rates, your equity accrues much faster from day 1.
If you don't have enough loans to have a solid credit rating you would be an unusual resident
They look at all loans differently--mortgages, student loans, car loans, credit cards, etc. so I wouldn't be sure of this.
Bottom line is, we have different experiences so we have different perspectives. You lost money owning a house, so you had a really bad experience and are hesitant to go through it again. I've had a good experience renting and owning, but there's no way around the fact that renting is a losing proposition in the end. The only thing I can say is that it allows you to live in a better neighborhood than you could normally buy into, and is obviously the best choice if you think you will be moving in a short period of time.