if money isn't a conern, there are always options. heck, you can become a surgeon and work 7-14 hours a week if you don't mind covering nigh shifts and only making ~50-70k/yr.
I can think of two hospitals off the top of my head that pay ~500-1000 for an overnight surgical shifts. Yes, the training is absolutely brutal. There are hospitals owned by say insurance companies or without full residency programs that hire people to cover acute care surgery, where an attending would be called in if a difficult case presented. I am currently living with someone applying for one of these jobs.
So, wait.
- Working 7-14 hours per week is enough to cover the ED? To cover any and all traumas, any and all late-night trachs/PEGs/J-Tubes/G-tubes that need to be done, see these patients as clinic followup, AND round on them as inpatients?
- Working 7-14 hours per week is also enough to generate enough money to cover your malpractice insurance? Or does this job expect you to work "naked" (i.e. uninsured)?
- Working 7-14 hours per week is enough to keep your surgical skills up so that you can competently take care of the "difficult cases" that present?
In what fantasy world is THIS a good idea??
I am sorry if that sounds harsh, but I would NOT want such a surgeon to do my stat ex-lap, my stat SBR, or (God forbid) my stat thoracotomy. 7-14 hours per week is not enough to keep your surgical skills up. Unless the person who is doing this job is a) a general surgeon during the day who operates at least 3 days a week, or b) a retired surgeon who has 25 years experience as an attending, that just sounds plain
frightening.
Furthermore, if you want to do minimal clinical stuff to leave time for research, most likely you want to
tie your clinical stuff to your research. What kind of research could 7-14 hours of surgical duty per week possibly generate? Even a lot of the new trauma research coming out now (for instance, there have been some interesting studies about how much FFP vs. PRBCs to give in traumas) are coming from trauma surgeons who are working their tails off - many of them are currently in Iraq or Afghanistan. Trust me, the people generating this kind of research aren't noodling round in the OR for <60 hours per month.
Yes, teaching doesn't pay. But if you get a job teaching UGrads at a school with money, they may give out grants to ugrads. my school was liberal with them and i got one. i then worked during the school year for credit: thats one way to get cheap/free labor. yes, grad students are expensive and that would probably require money. however, i know of at least two psych depts that i have been or nearly been affiliated with that offer direct money to their PIs for materials. Grad students can be paid using departmental money with TAships.
If you end up teaching at an undergrad with money, and
IF those undergrads get a undergraduate grant, and
IF the department is willing to pay the grad student for a TA spot, and
IF the grad student can somehow scrounge up the money to pay for THEIR experiments....
If, if, if. How often do all those "ifs" line up?
I'm not saying it isn't difficult to balance career and life. I think you are correct in suggesting that finding a balance is partly about expectations. But it also involves increasing efficiency, being comfortable wearing different hats, realizing one's own limitations, and having a great deal of support both directly in your career and in your life.
There is no pre-set, proscribed balance here, so anyone looking for a cookie-cutter approach to an MD/PhD career pathway will be searching for quite some time (that hasn't stopped me from starting to write a guidebook though!). Finding a balance is all about thinking long and hard about one's career goals, making tough choices, and gathering sufficient support in one's efforts. For different people, the balance will necessarily be different.
My advice would be to find people who do this successfully (they can be hard to find sometimes), talk to them, and try to incorporate some of those aspects of what make them successful into your own life. If you don't think it is possible for you to strike the balance you are looking for by choosing a specific career pathway, then by all means look for alternatives.
That brightly chirpy post was nice, but essentially doesn't say anything useful.
The OP's question was
NOT, "Can I find balance?" The question
WAS, "Can I do both clinical and research in ~ 50 hours a week"? You didn't quite answer the specifics of that question.
The problem with talking to people who did this "successfully," is a) they are often rare exceptions to the rule, and b) their definition of balance is frequently different from yours.
What often happens is that someone interested in medical oncology or pediatric surgery asks their mentor, "Can I do this very intense specialty and still lead a balanced life?" The mentor usually replies as you did, by saying, "Yes, with good time management, you can have time for your family too!" The student then goes into this field and is disillusioned, because their idea of a balanced life is having the majority of weekends completely off, being able to go to every ballet recital or soccer game, and eating dinner with the kids at least 4 nights a week....but quickly realize that their mentor's idea of a "balanced life" was very different.
So, do YOU think that the OP can do both in less than
FIFTY hours per week? I doubt it.