So I'm a senior in college and have absolutely zero extra curricular experience. I have no volunteer experience, no internships, and have never had a job in my life. I'm also not a part of any clubs or anything. The reason is I have dealt with mental health problems and it can be very hard for me to concentrate on multiple things such as work and school. I also have no friends so I'm not really sure who to talk to about this. I know, very sad. I know I have no other choice so I'm going to be taking at least 2 gap years before applying to any med schools. What should I do during this time and how do I start? Should I get a regular minimum wage job and start volunteering wherever I can ? Should I apply to be a scribe or a CNA? Since I have no work experience and no social life I just feel so behind everyone else. If anyone can help me out, that would be great!
You have to get your mental health issues under control before you can proceed any further on this pathway. Medical school is a furnace, and I've seen it break even healthy students. The #1 reason my school loses students to withdrawal, dismissal or LOA is to unresolved mental health issues.
As a medical student and a doctor, you have to be able to walk and chew gum at the same time.
For ECs, here are my thoughts:
Not all volunteering needs to be in a hospital. Think hospice, Planned Parenthood, nursing homes, rehab facilities, crisis hotlines, camps for sick children, or clinics.
Some types of volunteer activities are more appealing than others. Volunteering in a nice suburban hospital is all very well and good and all, but doesn't show that you're willing to dig in and get your hands dirty in the same way that working with the developmentally disabled (or homeless, the dying, or Alzheimers or mentally ill or elderly or ESL or domestic, rural impoverished) does. The uncomfortable situations are the ones that really demonstrate your altruism and get you 'brownie points'. Plus, they frankly teach you more -- they develop your compassion and humanity in ways comfortable situations can't.
Service need not be "unique"; it can be anything that helps people unable to help themselves and that is outside of a patient-care setting.If you can alleviate suffering in your community through service to the poor, homeless, illiterate, fatherless, etc, you are meeting an otherwise unmet need and learning more about the lives of the people (or types of people) who will someday be your patients.
Check out your local houses of worship for volunteer opportunities.
The key thing is service to others less fortunate than you. And get off campus and out of your comfort zone!
Examples include: Habitat for Humanity, Ronald McDonald House, Humane Society, crisis hotlines, soup kitchen, food pantry, homeless or women’s shelter, after-school tutoring for students or coaching a sport in a poor school district, teaching literacy or ESL to adults at a community center, Big Brothers/Big Sisters, Meals on Wheels, mentoring immigrant/refugee adults, being a friendly visitor to shut-ins, adaptive sports program coach or Special Olympics.