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I support my patients right to choose unhealthy behaviors. How is that so hard to believe? If they want to have a cigar and cognac after a hard days work, who am I to decide they shouldn't? There is a moralistic tone to the anti-smoking that bothers me. Tobacco is a legal product for adults in this country. My patients know the health consequences, they are not stupid. Some of them might smoke till the day they die, that is their right. Alcohol is a cytotoxic substance that has much more severe consequences for individuals and society, maybe we should tell them to stop using that.
Why is it so hard to understand that it is not my job to tell anyone what they should or should not do? How would it even be psychotherapy? Trust me, my patients have already been told what they should or shouldn't do. What is truly amazing is how much more effective my approach is at helping patients choose healthier behaviors.
NSSI is a great example. I get patients who have been cutting for years. They get lots of people telling them to stop and trying to prevent them from doing it through various control mechanisms. It does not work. About 80 percent of my patients stop cutting in a few weeks just by using DBT and MI principles and by changing the interpersonal pattern by not telling them what to do.
Why is it so hard to understand that it is not my job to tell anyone what they should or should not do? How would it even be psychotherapy? Trust me, my patients have already been told what they should or shouldn't do. What is truly amazing is how much more effective my approach is at helping patients choose healthier behaviors.
NSSI is a great example. I get patients who have been cutting for years. They get lots of people telling them to stop and trying to prevent them from doing it through various control mechanisms. It does not work. About 80 percent of my patients stop cutting in a few weeks just by using DBT and MI principles and by changing the interpersonal pattern by not telling them what to do.
