private school for the kids

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Anyone in residency and with kids putting them into private primary school? Is there financial aid for that? Are the catholic (religious)schools free? Dumb questions, but good schools will be a variable in my residency choice? Thanks for your help. 🙂
 
That is a question that depends on where you live. If I match back in New Orleans (yes I will be going back if I can), then my daughter will be in private school because the public schools are terrible. You have to pay for it and religious schools charge tuition also - hence the private part. SOme places have school vouchers now which allow the kids to leave their public school district and go into a charter school - like in Arizona and I think Florida.
You definitely need to ask the residents the question about schools at every interview - I know I will be.
 
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In many cases you can qualify for need-based financial aid at private schools if your children meet admission criteria. I know a resident at my program a few years back sent his daughter to private school and I know he was able to do it because of scholarship help. Parochial schools TEND to be MUCH more reasonably priced than private schools which can get VERY expensive. The all-boys private school my brothers attended is now $14,215 for 1st grade and $19,165 for 12th grade. That's more expensive than my college tuition was (of course that was 10 years ago).
 
Hey APACHE. Private schools do have financial aid. Probably the best thing you could do would be to contact the fin. aid office and mention that you are a resident, still in training, but in x number of years you will be fully trained. If you plan to move after residency, don't mention that. The school's fin aid office might see your child as a good "investment" since presumably in a few years you will be able to pay full freight and might even be a "development interest." (I know this sounds strange, but trust me, I worked in college admissions and my sis and I both went to private school almost our entire education careers!).

On another note, Catholic school is pretty cheap. I think tuition at my Catholic grammar school is now 5K a year for parish members, more like 6 or so for non-members.
 
I went to a private school for 14 years (preschool - 12th). I really regret it. I felt that while the education may have been better than the terrible public school that was in my district, I really couldn't enjoy my youth b/c I always had way too much homework. I did more homework in high school than I did in college--meaning, there was way more studying and all that to do. My private school started homework in 2nd grade--and there was lots of it! I was a stressed-out child because of all the homework and because of the high academic expectations.

My husband and I have decided not to put our kids into private school, ever. To me, finding a good public school is plenty good.
 
I would prefer public over private. It will really depend where I end up. I was just curious. I had heard that since residents are paid sh#$, they usually qualify for some aid, so I'll check it out, and I also heard some Montosourri (SP?) schools were free. I guess its all regional..Thanks everybody. 🙂
 
I have 2 kids and my residency rank list will reflect the quality of the public schools where I want to go. My kids go to a public elementary school now where I have to deal with beaurocracy at all levels. Its sad really. Examples of why I don't like public schools here:

1) PE is a 30 minute required subject for all kids in our district, but because the teachers are so concerned about out state's assessment exams, they often skip PE and keep on teaching. So one day I came up and watched to see if they were getting their PE, and they did not. I asked the teacher after school if PE is a required course, and she said yes it is. I asked what they had done that day and she informed me that they had "free play" outside. We had an immediate emergency meeting with the principal and the issue never came up again. But they wonder why the average BMI in our school district is 15% above the national average. There are several type II diabetic kids in this school!! And you just can't ask first graders to go all day without having a play break.

2) They require parents who want to pick up their children after school in cars to form a line around the school in a very specific manner. They have no police or traffic control, and people come from other streets to cut in front and it creates a big fight. Then, because the teacher's union states that teacher's "work period" starts exactly 10 minutes after the last bell, if 11 minutes goes by after waiting in line to pick up your child, the teacher has the right to take the remaining kids in their class to the office where you have to physically go and pick them up. All after waiting in the car line, and now you have to drive out into the neighborhood and find a parking spot, and walk back to the school.

3) If a child has to miss more than 3 days of school for any reason in the year, the only excused absence is to be ill. I would actually like to take my kids on a couple of interview invites so they can give input into the process, so God forbid they also get sick sometime this year. Whatever happened to parents knowing what is best for their children? 2 years ago I only had a daughter in kindergarten, and our Spring breaks were different. So I took her out of school to go see family because it was the only time that year I had any real time off. Of course I had to get her a "doctor's note" for her illness because otherwise she might have to repeat kindergarten. Forget the fact that she scored a perfect score on the assessment exam even before the 2nd semester!!

4) My son is now in first grade, but they don't have enough first grade teachers. So they instead took 7 of the "gifted" first graders and placed them in a newly created "2nd grade bridge course" where they are supposed to be learning how to read (like normal first graders). My son who just started reading the month before is used to words like hat, bat, dog, cat....and now he comes home with spelling words like between, believe, poney, maybe!! My daughter in 2nd grade came home with the exact same words. It took a call to the district and another meeting with the principal to get this resolved and get him learning some first grade stuff.

This is only the tip of the iceberg. The resources available to even the best principals and teachers in public schools is laughable. My kid's school is one of the best public schools in the city. Many of the others are just plain ghetto. So now I am using the web and applying to programs that are in districts with exemplary ratings and above average ratings. And if all else fails, I will take out a bank loan to send them to private schools.
 
My mom was a public school, elementary school teacher for 35 years. She had her foot broken and was stuck with a hyperdermic needle, just to mention a few memorable things. She retired early. Just burned her out. Now, she's teaching English in central europe to college kids...and no broken feet! 😀 Like I said, its all local. Hopefully when I intervew, I'll have some extra time to check out neighborhoods and schools. GL.