Hi there,
When I was a first year medical student, I initially struggled with Gross Anatomy. Part of my dilemma stemmed from the fact that there were sooooooo many nerves and arteries we needed to learn (much less so veins). I can't tell you specifically what to do, but I found a few things helpful:
1. Find the origin of the artery and nerve. If you know the origins, and all of their branches, it makes learning/understanding what they supply, adn where they course, much easier.
2. Draw a picture. It sounds silly, but it works! I'm a heavily visual learner, and sometimes staring at pictures in Netter's just didn't do it for me. I find it useless to memorize information that I first do not understand. It was critical for me to understand the origins of blood vessels before I could understand what they supplied.. So, for instance, I found the aorta, and focused on the subclavian artery. I drew all of the branches of the subclavian artery in the correct (or semi-correct) direction that they traveled. At the end of each branch, I drew an arrow that pointed to the muscles supplied by that artery. I did the same for the nerves (this is expecially true for the Trigeminal Nerve and it's main branches--the Ophthalmic, Maxillary, and Mandibular Nerves, and their respective subranches
. I color coded everything.
3. Pneumonics! Pneumonics are key to Gross Anatomy, and often times, it requires very little effort on your behalf because they can stand for almost anything. It's also helpful to get pneumonics from your classmates. I don't have any that come to mind (this was almost a year ago), but if you'd like, I I search for them this weekend and PM them to you.
I wish you all the best!