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Hey guys, I'm feeling pretty helpless about my dissertation situation. I am currently so fixated on applying to internship/traveling but am worried because I proposed in the summer (which is our deadline to be able to apply for internship) and so far this semester have not had ONE dissertation meeting or moved forward with applying to the IRB, data collection, anything. I will definitely be out of state for internship and do not want to have to come back and take an extra year or two to finish dissertation. I've heard of people taking an extra year BEFORE internship if they failed comprehensive exams or a practicum but have never heard of anyone who took an extra year AFTER internship before they could graduate just to finish dissertation. Now, when selecting an advisor, I chose mine because we clicked and he said he had a more unstructured approach and needed a highly motivated/proactive student. Him taking three months or more to edit drafts didn't bother me because I wasn't technically behind, but now I definitely am and feel like this semester was just wasted. Furthermore, I did have problems proposing. First, my proposal was accepted with revisions and I kept reminding him to please hurry and read the revisions, sign, etc. Once he told me that he had to be the one to collect the signatures from everyone I knew I was screwed. He told me not to worry because the deadline was still two weeks away (I knew it would take longer though). I have people in my cohort who actually proposed a week before the deadline, did the edits, and still their advisor got everything submitted in time. A few days prior to the deadline, the program director kept emailing me about the deadline and I told her I couldn't do anything until he did his part. I didn't hear from him and the deadline passed, even though I emailed him multiple times. The DCT contacted me saying my petition for internship was rejected, I had to communicate via email and try to explain what happened and she said I could petition to reject the failed petition in the fall. A month later, my advisor emailed me saying he had a personal manner come up. I was cordial and told him the next step was to submit the signature page. In the fall, he disappeared again and everyone on my committee sent their signature within a day and I still hadn't heard from him. I emailed the dean, DCT, etc. with my signature page and said if someone can find him they can get his signature because I'm not missing internship due to this. Thankfully, they approved my petition. However, this incident shows me this could easily happen again. In order to be proactive, I emailed another committee member asking to have dissertation meetings and they said I should do that with my advisor. I told them "remember what happened this summer, I'm very concerned and also Dr. X told me that he cannot help much with the data collection/statistical analyses because that's not his area of expertise and that was why I selected you for my committee." He hasn't responded, but it looks like I'm screwed because I added this person to my committee for help with the statistics and I know my advisor is clueless on all of that. I also know this will not be defended prior to leaving for internship and if communication is this difficult now, it will only be worse when I'm out of state. Thus, I have several questions for you guys:
1) Should I switch advisors? I was told this can be awkward if rejected...
2) My committee member is clearly too busy to help much. He is also the person I go to if I want to change my advisor. Should I change my approach and ask him to meet regarding POTENTIALLY making changes in my committee?
Overall, I just feel helpless that my advisor cut communication whenever he wants. I have passed every other hoop in this program and never thought dissertation would hold me back. My advisor always joked about how I came to him and started my dissertation on the very first day of my first year.
1) Should I switch advisors? I was told this can be awkward if rejected...
2) My committee member is clearly too busy to help much. He is also the person I go to if I want to change my advisor. Should I change my approach and ask him to meet regarding POTENTIALLY making changes in my committee?
Overall, I just feel helpless that my advisor cut communication whenever he wants. I have passed every other hoop in this program and never thought dissertation would hold me back. My advisor always joked about how I came to him and started my dissertation on the very first day of my first year.