stanford has a VR program.
regardless, unless you are a researcher, it would be extremely short sighted and foolish to choose a program based on how "futuristic" (sic) it is. No one knows what the practice of psychiatry is going to look like in 30 or 40 yrs time, but I can tell you it is unlikely to change substantially in the next 10 years. The fundamentals of psychiatry will always be the same (unless it morphs into an entirely different field). Thus it is much better to think of how well the program will prepare you in general for practice. As physicians, we have to be able to adapt and keep abreast of new developments. It is not realistic for a program to train you something that doesn't exist yet. What you are asking about would be a 3rd or 4th yr elective type thing at best. I would be seriously concerned if any residency program was heavily oriented towards neurofeedback, which right now for most indications is just quackery. If your program can teach you how to talk to patients, critically appraise the literature, practice ethically, formulate patient's problems from multiple perspectives, recognize when a psychiatric presentation signals an underlying neuromedical disorder, understand the sociocultural context of mental wellbeing, and the medicolegal dimensions of care you will have a pretty solid foundation for anything.
on the other hand, if you are interested in research and studying and developing new technological interventions then you should definitely consider what kinds of programs are available to study these (since it is investigational, it is not going to be a significant part of your clinical training). Also important to separate the legitimate from the pseudoscience. VR definitely has emerging uses in psychotherapy for a range of conditions. neurofeedback is mostly quackery.