OK Amyl, I think we're on the same page now. You must believe her EF was >60%. I don't, unless you saw it specifically calculated and reported. So then yes, given her pHTN, she'd fall to a IIa guideline - "it is reasonable" to perform MV surgery. Fair enough.
Earlier in the thread, I mentioned that "normal EF" in MR and "normal RV function" in TR are often not truly normal. That's reflected in the guidelines' cutoff of LVEF of 60% and still labeling it dysfunctional. I look at echoes daily, and not once have I seen a cardiologist call "EF 60%, mild dysfunction in the setting of MR." They just say "normal EF." Given her pHTN, I don't really believe her LV function is truly normal and I'm willing to bet her "preserved EF" is somewhere 50-60%. But you are right. If it is >60% and she is truly asymptomatic (We disagree on that one), I concede it's not a class I indication.
My overall stance is still that she needed her valves addressed before a 6-7hr elective surgery. If she gets evaluated, has a real discussion about options (not on the day of surgery), and still declines cardiac surgery -- optimize, document, and proceed.
Hopefully I am not coming off as overly critical about your decision. I recognize it's a difficult situation, especially when the cardiologist does not feel the patient needs a cardiac surgery evaluation. It's unclear at that point if the patient benefits from canceling the surgery, since the cardiologist won't refer her to a surgeon. On the other hand maybe it would trigger a re-evaluation and real discussion with the patient. But as to your point of telling the cardiologist how to do their job, you have to draw the line somewhere. Otherwise you risk letting them dictate how you do your job.