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Hello ladies,

I know the comfy, cute shoe discussion has been done over & over but i have a question to add. Does anyone have any advice on a super comfy shoe to were in the hospital with heels? I'm sick of not being able to were a good portion of my pants because they're a bit too long for my Clark Clogs... and I don't want to hem them because I still like to wear most of them out with my "real-life" shoes. Any ideas/advice?

Thanks! 😍
~Bean
 
dansko clogs have a pretty thick sole with a bit of a heel so they give you about 2 1/2 inches. they are definitely taller than clarks, which are kind of flat. they give me enough height so that my pants don't really drag on the floor (mostly). there are some mary-jane styles that even look ok with skirts as well.
 
I agree with pikachu. The height is one of the reasons I like my dansko's (and asking for TWO steps in the OR makes me feel silly). They also have some new shoes (i.e. not clogs) with more of a traditional heal. http://www.dansko.com/Our_Products/Women's/Shoes.aspx?PageID=1
 
I don't know exactly what you're looking for, but I've found Aerosoles and Franco Sarto to both have pretty comfortable dress shoes with low heels. You might want to check those out. I'm wondering about the same thing. I'm about to start rotations this summer and I like to wear long loose skirts in the summer because they're cooler than pants and NYC where I live gets really muggy in July and August. But you really can't wear a skirt with Dansko clogs. So, I'm in the same situation, looking for comfortable shoes that won't look completely stupid with a skirt. I kinda like a couple of the Dansko maryjane styles, but I really was looking for something a bit dressier/more professional. I feel silly seeing men on the wards in shirts, ties, and dress slacks and shoes while I wear black pants, some kind of knit sweater top, and my dorky little dansko clogs...I'd like to look a bit more professional and "dressier" (this is New York after all, where people tend to be more formal than other parts of the country, and I do feel that my appearance influences what other people think of my level of professionalism) but women's dress shoes are seldom very comfortable. Hence the problem. In the business world, the women's equivalent to men's dress slacks, button-up, and tie would probably be a skirt suit, minus the jacket, with low pumps or heels and a nice blouse. That's fine in an office setting, but on the wards women can't really dress like that for functional reasons, so I feel we tend to end up looking less professional than our male colleagues whose "professional uniform" is more functional and practical to wear on the wards. I don't like that, and I don't know what to do about it. I'd like to dress with a similar level of formality as my male colleagues both out of respect for myself and out of respect for my job and my patients. But to do that is difficult on a practical level. I'm not a girly-girl who doesn't like to get her hands dirty, I wear jeans and clogs or sneakers most of the time when I'm not in the hospital. I realize the need to be able to get around quickly and be comfortable on the wards. But I also would like to look professional, and it seems it's hard for women to find clothing that's both professional and comfortable/practical. Anyone know of any good sources for this? I guess it's mostly shoes that are the problem...I can find shirts and skirts/slacks that are appropriate and comfortable, the problem is I can't find shoes to go with them that I'm going to be able to stand in all day (especially as I'm not used to wearing heels/dress shoes most of the time to begin with).
 
jennie 21 said:
I don't know exactly what you're looking for, but I've found Aerosoles and Franco Sarto to both have pretty comfortable dress shoes with low heels. You might want to check those out. I'm wondering about the same thing. I'm about to start rotations this summer and I like to wear long loose skirts in the summer because they're cooler than pants and NYC where I live gets really muggy in July and August. But you really can't wear a skirt with Dansko clogs. So, I'm in the same situation, looking for comfortable shoes that won't look completely stupid with a skirt. I kinda like a couple of the Dansko maryjane styles, but I really was looking for something a bit dressier/more professional. I feel silly seeing men on the wards in shirts, ties, and dress slacks and shoes while I wear black pants, some kind of knit sweater top, and my dorky little dansko clogs...I'd like to look a bit more professional and "dressier" (this is New York after all, where people tend to be more formal than other parts of the country, and I do feel that my appearance influences what other people think of my level of professionalism) but women's dress shoes are seldom very comfortable. Hence the problem. In the business world, the women's equivalent to men's dress slacks, button-up, and tie would probably be a skirt suit, minus the jacket, with low pumps or heels and a nice blouse. That's fine in an office setting, but on the wards women can't really dress like that for functional reasons, so I feel we tend to end up looking less professional than our male colleagues whose "professional uniform" is more functional and practical to wear on the wards. I don't like that, and I don't know what to do about it. I'd like to dress with a similar level of formality as my male colleagues both out of respect for myself and out of respect for my job and my patients. But to do that is difficult on a practical level. I'm not a girly-girl who doesn't like to get her hands dirty, I wear jeans and clogs or sneakers most of the time when I'm not in the hospital. I realize the need to be able to get around quickly and be comfortable on the wards. But I also would like to look professional, and it seems it's hard for women to find clothing that's both professional and comfortable/practical. Anyone know of any good sources for this? I guess it's mostly shoes that are the problem...I can find shirts and skirts/slacks that are appropriate and comfortable, the problem is I can't find shoes to go with them that I'm going to be able to stand in all day (especially as I'm not used to wearing heels/dress shoes most of the time to begin with).

Personally I would probably just go with the "dressier" Dansko styles or something similar if you want to wear a skirt (and I can see where that would be a good idea in the summer). Honestly, I don't think people pay THAT much attention to shoes unless they're really awful, and they definitely need to be practical. I agree with you about how impractical women's dress shoes are--I can't stand most of them and that's why I hardly ever wear a skirt unless I am in a situation where I can get away with wearing some comfortable sandals with it, which obviously one can't in the hospital. Oh, and don't even get me started on pantyhose...UGH!! As for professional tops to wear with pants, there are some nice twinsets that would work well, but those are more for fall/winter/early spring. That's what I often wear when I need to look professional--it looks pulled-together and is still quite comfortable, and usually they're machine washable, which is a big plus in a hospital!
 
Hmm...I feel like I'm going through the same dilemma. I'm from NY too and I've gotten into the habit of being very "style conscious." A lot of the med students here go the comfortable route but I tend to dress more trendy and hence the shoe problem (especially with skirts). Sometimes, I admit I will opt for the less comfy 1 1/2 in heel if it goes with my outfit. Of course on that day I make sure I'm not running around that much that day. I hate getting the comments from people saying "oh those don't look too comfy" or "you should dress down a little more". I think it should be left to the individual person whether they are more into style or comfort. I mean, just cause I am in the medical profession doesn't mean I should lose my sense of style or femininity and I refuse to do that anyway.
I mean, I guess those dansko shoes are an alternative, but they honestly aren't that great looking and wouldn't really go that well with some outfits. I don't think I would be caught dead in a pair of those unless i were wearing scrubs.
Also, I think it depends on the rotation you are doing and how hectic your schedule is. I'm in IM right now and the schedule is pretty lax, with rounds, meetings, and lectures taking up a lot of my time. If I were doing something like OB or surgery, I think I wouldn't even consider anything else but my comfy flat clogs.
 
ssg said:
I hate getting the comments from people saying "oh those don't look too comfy" or "you should dress down a little more". I think it should be left to the individual person whether they are more into style or comfort. I mean, just cause I am in the medical profession doesn't mean I should lose my sense of style or femininity and I refuse to do that anyway.

That's true, people should mind their own business in that regard. I'd be interested to hear other people's suggestions for feminine but still practical/comfortable clothes and shoes--why shouldn't we be able to have both? Oh, and another pet peeve of mine: Why are so many of the more professional clothes dry-clean only? My rule is that I generally won't buy something unless it's machine washable, and preferably tumble dry as well. I've always been more interested in comfort than fashion, but I'm trying to develop a more feminine style than I've had in the past (I'm even growing my hair long--I wore it REALLY short for quite a while--in order to avoid being mistake for a guy in med school etc. when I'm wearing a lab coat and someone sees me from behind. However, the only problem is that at the present time it is a shaggy mess held out of the way by one of those stretchy headbands.). Wow. That was some serious rambling. I'll shut up now. 😉
 
It really is a nuisance. Although I wear my clogs/sneakers most of the time, I do have to dress nicely for clinic and certain visiting professor events, etc. and don't like the clogs with pants look (I really have gotten away from wearing skirts as I've gotten a bit chubby during my residency and am ridiculously pale now as well and can't fathom wearing hose). I have a pair of Nine West flats, black, square toe with a silver buckle. I think I'm addicted to the buckle as it seems every shoe I notice has them. Comfortable, dressy enough and doesn't look too old lady-ish.
 
v-tach said:
Oh, and another pet peeve of mine: Why are so many of the more professional clothes dry-clean only? My rule is that I generally won't buy something unless it's machine washable, and preferably tumble dry as well.

Yes yes yes! This is a pet peeve of mine too. WHY can't they make professional-looking clothes that are washable? Seems like every time I go into a store these days, practically everything there is dry clean only. For a long time I refused to buy things that had to be dry cleaned...but lately I've just resigned myself to it because otherwise it's practically impossible to find clothes (especially professional looking slacks and sweaters). And I have a huge dry cleaning bill to show for it...I don't even want to think about how much $ my husband and I combined spend on drycleaning in a given month. I guess I figure it's a professional expense...
 
ssg said:
Hmm...I feel like I'm going through the same dilemma. I'm from NY too and I've gotten into the habit of being very "style conscious."

Yeah, New York really is different in this regard, isn't it? I'm from Colorado originally and was just shocked when I moved out East for college to see how dressed up people get on a day-to-day basis...guys wearing button downs and ties to class in college, for example. I notice it even more now that I'm in the city, and I've become a lot more style-conscious myself since moving here. I like to look polished and blend in with the "natives" lol.
 
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