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Tildy's note before posting:
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Now, here's the post/question:
I expect this post to elicit some strong reactions. Please remember the rules of this forum related to not posting unhelpful comments for the OP (which is not to say that all responses must be "positive"). Also, I suspect that some may wish to anonymously post their own experiences. You can do so by indicating in your response that you wish it to be anonymous, by PMing it to me, or if you must, by creating an account for that purpose.
Now, here's the post/question:
Hi,
I was an RN for 10 years, primarily working in critical care - specifically ER for many years. I have knocked around the idea of medical school for many years on and off. Life, however, always creeps into our plans of course. I supported my estranged husbands dreams and failing business because I loved him. I stayed in nursing and didn't work toward an advancement to MD because nursing certainly does one thing for many women and men, and that is: it brings home the bacon.
Let's cut to the chase. My husband left me for a coworker of his, and I began using opiates, quickly moving up the dummy scale to Dilaudid. I lost my license after several months and am extremely lucky it was not my life. I could make excuses, but there are none. I paid for it with my license.
I am clean 6 months now and miss the hospital terribly. I realize that I shouldnt be in the position of narcotic administration any time soon, if ever.
My question for you fine ladies and gentlemen is this: If I were to start working toward a medical degree (it would be probably 2 years or better before the point of taking MCATs) would I even be considered for residency given my history? Is this something that is unforgivable in the medical community altogether? The experiences I have had with state nursing boards is grim: offering no rehab or councelling, basically taking my license then telling me to shove off and enjoy my new life as a waitress after I detox in my bathroom at home.
I guess I hope that I didn't mess up so badly that I'll never be able to work with patients again. Can anyone offer some insight?
Lastly I just wanted to offer you all some sage advice: don't EVER think you are so strong, so competent, that the needle cannot find you. I used to be one of those people horrified by nurses turned addicts, and I couldn't understand why or how. I never would have dreamed in my worst nightmares 3 years ago that I would be shooting dilaudid in a hospital bathroom just to end the stomach cramps and sweats so I could complete a 16 hour shift. Keep this little nugget in the back of your brain throughout your days as a caregiver. No one is immune.
Thanks so much,
a former trauma nurse team leader at a major trauma center