In an attempt to keep my posts short (I do try Caverject!!!!!
) - I'll give an example of mine from last week that might have turned out differently had I not handled it the way I did.
I have a pt who had a PE a few months ago - got standard tx, currently on warfarin. But, altho I knew she was not improving, I didn't know the extent of her disease.
So - I'm sent a Lovenox rx by e-rx with a HUGE, WHOPPING DOSE - even for a woman her size.
So, I talk to the pt. She is going to a major university in S CA for a procedure which is only done by some great person down there. I tell her I have the rx & get the time frame of her departure & tell her I want to just get the dose clear so I am sure to send her with enough. See - in her mind, I've got no questions - I just want to get her what she needs so she doesn't have to chase around in an unknown area getting Lovenox.
Now - I call the Dr office - one of these huge clinic type things that you have to go thru lots of people & leave messages & I knew I'd probably get something cryptic back - yes, thats what I want.
But - surprisingly no. I talk to the nurse & verify the dose. But, she says - I think the Dr was expecting your call. I explain this is a really, really large dose & one that was twice what she was on after her initial PE and I'm just concerned that I was not reading his rx clearly. So...we have this conversation about what this woman has suffered - multiple emboli in both lungs which are not resolving, scarring in not just her lungs, but in her PA, PV & all this is impacting her CO. She is going to this physician who is only one of two on the west coast (the other is in Seattle) who will do this surgery to remove some of the emboli & scar tissue in hopes to lessen further damage to the lungs & heart.
He says he knew I'd call & wonder if he'd gotten the decimals right or done the math right, but he was following the protocol sent to him by this S CA physician & gave me the article reference. He wanted me to read it & get back to him if I had a different take on what the dosing was - I didn't.
So - we had a great discussion, he thanked me for facilitating her access to medication (I had to bill it twice since insurance limited payment to $1000 per billing & there was no time for a PA), I learned something & when I actually did the counseling with the pt, I could answer her questions more completely than I might have otherwise.
This is how the "best" encounters go. They don't always go this way & I've had those just like the OP - a phone rant. As time goes by though, I've learned that if I present my question in such a manner that I'm trying to be careful I've not made a mistake or misinterpreted the prescribers instructions (self-deprecating perhaps)...then, the prescriber is more open to a "coversation" rather than a "confrontation".
Just a different experience which may or may not help your encounters in the future.
Good luck!