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On second thought, if the poll only allows you to list 20 programs...it may not be worth the trouble creating such a survey. Obviously, there are so many programs and we would want a survey to be useful to everyone. Instead, and in agreement with you earlier, the prudent thing to do--and this would serve to help out NEXT year's applying class--is to just spill the beans out on this thread or a related thread that has to do with communication/feedback from programs. And we could do this at early as Feb. 24th but most likely after Match Day when all the stress has dissipated and all this hubbub is behind us.Logos' said:We have all heard that it is not wise to believe PD/chairs when they make vague statements about competitiveness but what about verbal/written commitments that "you are ranked to match" etc. I have had a lot of recent communication from programs and am wondering what to think, so here is an anonymous survey to see how many of us have received this kind of communication and from where. Could only list 20 programs and I picked them a bit randomly, no slight intended.
stormjen said:All I've gotten is "very competitive" from programs, which is a load of crap to me since I'm at best an average applicant. I wish it were not the case, but I had a lot of stuff going on during med school that detracted from my academic performance.
Dude, you're a mood-killer. I feel so unspecial. Thanks. Now I'm gonna go to Quiznos and eat, eat more, and keep eating until I fall asleep.yaah said:I was also called "highly competitive," "Extremely competitive," and "A top candidate." So I have no idea what these terms mean. The programs where I thought I was competitive but far from a guaranteed lock (some of the big name programs) told me "You are a strong candidate and we would love to have you come here" which is a complete cop out because there are probably about 30 candidates they say that one to.
AndyMilonakis said:Dude, you're a mood-killer. I feel so unspecial. Thanks. Now I'm gonna go to Quiznos and eat, eat more, and keep eating until I fall asleep.
a little late for that buddy. i feel like i've been...yaah said:I wouldn't feel unspecial - I think people run the gamut from hearing these comments and saying "This is fantastic" to saying "They don't mean anything." The thing is, they are not going to tell this to people that they don't like. It is a good sign. It might not mean you are #1 on their list but it also means you are on the list. The whole matching process is complicated and kind of annoying, but it works out well for most people.
jeff2005 said:This thread is making me feel like a big loser.
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i sent out a bunch of emails yesterday (well only 5) and got no responses. i think i pissed them off and dropped off their rank list.yaah said:I think most programs don't do much in regards to this. There are a select few (a vocal few) that do it, so I think it tends to get exaggerated. I wouldn't worry.
AndyMilonakis said:i sent out a bunch of emails yesterday (well only 5) and got no responses. i think i pissed them off and dropped off their rank list.
i thought i would at least get a response from my #1. i mean...they emailed me first saying we hope you choose here. i'm like...awww yeah boy! send them an email. no response. this is killing me. i need another quiznos sub.yaah said:I know how that feels.
Actually I didn't get responses to a lot of the ones I sent last year either, and I wondered if it meant anything. I doubt it. You may get a response in a few days or perhaps after they finish their rank list. Either way, don't stress about it. They are busy people. That being said though, a reply is a courteous response. But some people don't think replying to emails is that important.
AndyMilonakis said:i thought i would at least get a response from my #1. i mean...they emailed me first saying we hope you choose here. i'm like...awww yeah boy! send them an email. no response. this is killing me. i need another quiznos sub.
no. they don't like me enough to do that.yaah said:Did they send you a US mail letter? You can always use the "The PD is probably on vacation or at a conference" rationale. That worked for me last year.
AndyMilonakis said:no. they don't like me enough to do that.
ok then...i'll pass on the second sub.yaah said:They like you, don't worry.
one step at a time...Logos' said:Oops did not mean to post that one last night, was just playing around with the poll feature and it obviously went through (just before I PMd you Andy).
Long day in the unit so I dont really have energy for the survey (and still agree with you Andy about something at a later date), but thanks everyone for sharing. I am not sure what to make of it all either but I cant wait for 2/23 to at least get this decision off my mind.
Best of luck to everyone,
Logos
deschutes said:How's this for honesty: a program told me "You are on our rank order list."
2005 said:Do programs ever send out "you suck" letters after one interviews? I'm curious if they ever tell a candidate they're not interested in them after they've interviewed. That would be harsh. Do they just send no correspondence at all or do they tell everyone the same meaningless crap whether they liked you or not?
stormjen said:The chairman at my top choice told me during my interview "I doubt we wouldn't rank you". Ouch.
vetiver said:i talked to a pd recently and they told me that i could call them after they made their rank list and find out where i was ranked. has this happened to anyone else? is this legal?
i'm thinking that it's illegal for me to call and ask straight out where i'm ranked, but i could call and say something like "sooo, how did your ranking meeting go?"? i'd like to hear people's thoughts on how to handle this. thanks!
deschutes said:Two programs flat-out told me they don't participate in Match violations or anything remotely resembling such, and that communications from my end would not change things.
stormjen said:A program told me recently that they don't give a hoot about match rules and I absolutely must tell them if I'm ranking them first so they can adjust their list accordingly. It made me feel uneasy because I probably won't rank them first, but I still want them to rank me highly, in case I don't get into my first choice. So it's like if I want them to rank me highly, I have to imply that I'm ranking them first. And I can't do that if I'm ranking them second or third, because I don't play that game, biatch.
Our dean strongly encouraged us to let him know if any match violations occur so that the school can advocate for us. You could say screw 'em and report it....or perhaps tactfully tell them that you don't feel comfortable with violating match rules and that you're ranking them highly but will have to leave it at that. Then again you could say screw 'em and go ahead and tell them you're ranking them #1. What can they do about it? Accuse you later of lying to them? You could throw the match violation right back at them.stormjen said:A program told me recently that they don't give a hoot about match rules and I absolutely must tell them if I'm ranking them first so they can adjust their list accordingly. It made me feel uneasy because I probably won't rank them first, but I still want them to rank me highly, in case I don't get into my first choice. So it's like if I want them to rank me highly, I have to imply that I'm ranking them first. And I can't do that if I'm ranking them second or third, because I don't play that game, biatch.
our dean told us the same thing during his ranking seminar. he even told us to "blame him" when forced to commit by saying, "well according to our dean of students, we cannot....yada yada yada."cytoborg said:Our dean strongly encouraged us to let him know if any match violations occur so that the school can advocate for us. You could say screw 'em and report it....or perhaps tactfully tell them that you don't feel comfortable with violating match rules and that you're ranking them highly but will have to leave it at that. Then again you could say screw 'em and go ahead and tell them you're ranking them #1. What can they do about it? Accuse you later of lying to them? You could throw the match violation right back at them.
Amen!EvilTaz said:I applied to 6 programs. Blatant outright match violations have occured from 2 programs (i.e. any final decisions? if you don't tell us there may be long-term repercussions if you need a job later, etc.), with very hard sells/questionable match violations from 2 others. I'm also not the only one from my school where this has happened. These match rules are a crock! I say screw them - any program which is so concerned with looking bad about going down a couple of extra slots on their match list is not a place I want to be. I'm into quality and not appearances.
Repercussions if you need a job later?! Jeeeeeez! Is it really necessary to get so threatening about things? That has to be the fastest way to drive good candidates away!EvilTaz said:Blatant outright match violations have occured from 2 programs (i.e. any final decisions? if you don't tell us there may be long-term repercussions if you need a job later, etc.)
It sucks to be cornered and pressured like this. 10 pm though?!?!?! That's rude. I guess this kind of shenanigans happens because historically the far majority of people don't go below #1 on their rank lists. But times are changing and we applicants need to cover our asses...and that's why we rank a #2, #3, #4, etc. So what's the deal with the pressure. This crap should stop! So what if you don't get any commitment from the #1 program but #2-5 calls you up and says, "you rankin us #1? you rankin us #1 right?" And let's say we're honest and say, "I'm ranking you highly (i.e., NOT #1)." Then we're F'd in the A and we should just rank one program and one program only and pray to our respective gods that we get our #1 choice!pathres2 said:I got the same call last year at home at 10 pm (!!!) from the chairman of a very highly ranked program nationally, asking me basically where I would rank them. I replied "you are one of my first choices" (they were number 4 of 4 ranked). He then asked "so should I expect to see you here come July?" I repeated "I am very excited about joining a program as strong as yours." He then said "well, great then, I am excited about having you come here, but should that change please let us know right away because you don't want to burn your bridges for the future: you might want to do a fellowship here or apply for a job." I thought I had played my cards right in evading the question but I got cornered. I had to call him the next morning and tell him that his program was not my first choice, but it was an agonizing experience nonetheless. You might want to prepare a response in your head for such a phone call because you will get it.
or i can go out as usual and leave my cell phone at home!yaah said:I didn't get any late night calls. Latest one I got was like 8pm. If someone wakes me up after I go to bed, I usually call them back when I wake up in the morning. They love that.
Well Logos' you only got 2 more weeks to chooseLogos' said:I have not yet committed to anyone and have found that the programs I liked most have put the least pressure on me to choose. I got one call around 9:30 pm and it totally caught me off guard, but that may have been the idea.