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I don't have contact with my biological mother. Haven't had any voluntary contact in over 2 years. I stopped speaking to her due to a number of things. She recently has started to contact me relentlessly because she somehow discovered that I live on my own now(I moved out almost a year ago) and from what I can gather from the 5 second phone conversations is that she thinks I am engaged(I am not) and she knows what school I go to and what classes I am currently in. Her unwanted contact has really, really upset me. 🙁 I have 2 mid terms on Wednesday and I cant focus enough to study.

It doesnt bother me really that she is trying to contact me, it just bothers me because I know that someone must be feeding her information, and I do not know who it is.

No real advice but I just wanted to extend my condolences and offer an internet hug. 🙁 I know how hard parent stuff can be... My husband is estranged from both his parents and that **** is noooot easy. *hugs* If not having contact with your mom is what is healthiest for YOU, then stick to your guns and focus on what's important.
 
I don't have contact with my biological mother. Haven't had any voluntary contact in over 2 years. I stopped speaking to her due to a number of things. She recently has started to contact me relentlessly because she somehow discovered that I live on my own now(I moved out almost a year ago) and from what I can gather from the 5 second phone conversations is that she thinks I am engaged(I am not) and she knows what school I go to and what classes I am currently in. Her unwanted contact has really, really upset me. 🙁 I have 2 mid terms on Wednesday and I cant focus enough to study.

It doesnt bother me really that she is trying to contact me, it just bothers me because I know that someone must be feeding her information, and I do not know who it is.

That is really frustrating, MommaFox. My dad and I don't communicate, but he is on Facebook and I did add him when he requested it. He called my sister last Christmas and asked if I was there, so I willingly talked to him. He ended up asking if he was going to be invited to my wedding (which was in May). Then, at the wedding, my aunt (dad's sister) started telling my sister that it wasn't right that my dad and grandfather weren't there, despite the fact that neither one has been a part of my life for a decade or more. Anyway, I am pretty sure I know where he got the idea that he should be invited and it is super frustrating.

Hopefully you figure it out soon but in the meantime good luck on exams!!
 
Here's how my day went:

9 am get to work and see that 3 surgeries are there on a 1 doctor Sun. 2 are spays, 1 is a dental. See that the schedule is solidly booked - 3 appointment clusters at 9, 11, 2, 3, and 4 o'clock (we close at 5). My assistants have gotten blood on all surgeries and catheters on 2 of 3 surgeries. Start seeing rooms. First room is a hyper akita mix. Get anal glanded. Get scratched to heck. do complete comprehensive examination including blood work. Send pet home to have yet another complete comprehensive walk in. See 2 puppy vaccine rooms. Pre-med dental after blood work is finished.

10 am rolls around. Start dental. Start the 2 drop off pets. Dental is an 83 lb dog. Get dog up on table, get defecated on by dog. Have monitoring equipment not work as it should, trouble shoot while continually listening to dog. See hyper pug mix. Listen to hyper pug mix howl and scratch after done. Call owner and wait for them to pick up their dog. Pre-med first spay at the end of this hour.

11 am. See all rooms as scheduled, get started on spay in the middle of the hour. Check all knots and pedicles. Have knot slip off pedicle AFTER being checked twice with no problems or loosening. Quickly find bleeding pedicle. Have an emergency walk in. Golden retriever that is lethargic. Ask assistants to approve blood work and start collecting samples. Recover pet so that assistants can work together to get blood. Pre-med other pet. Get vomited on.

12 pm. See golden. See that there is fluid in the abdomen and the blood pressure is non-existent. See that the color goes pale if pet is not able to pant. Blood is not happening. Get x-rays. See no serosal detail in the abdomen. See fissure lines in the lungs. See enlarged lymph nodes. Give owner prognosis. Owner starts crying and asks if she needs to make a decision. Tell her yes. owner needs to time.

1 pm. Owner still needs some time. Start other spay. 50 lb puppy with lots of fat. Think that this should be my lunch hour. perform spay. ligate both pedicles. Have pedicle slip again. Find bleeder while freaking out. Remember that I am alone and I have no options but i have blood products. Fight back fear and ligate pedicle AGAIN. perform rest of spay with no complication. Take time to go over everything again with golden's owner. Perform euthanasia. Husband brings lunch as I cannot leave - no time to eat. Open soda for SOME type of sugar.

2 pm. see 3 appointments. 2 are comprehensive exams. 1 is a sick rat that followed from my old hospital with chronic respiratory disease. Explain to owner again about different disease possibilities. Get peed on. Have 2 new pets walk in and want to be seen. See new pets. Have 1 puppy that is currently having issues with hypoglycemia with flighty owners. Explain that they had already fixed the hypoglycemia with karo syrup and they must keep it on hand. Explain that the puppy is barely 1.5 lbs and I can't get the blood needed to perform bile acids tests. Explain again that hypoglycemia is not uncommon.

3 pm. See 3 more pets with illnesses. Sneak a bite of food in between while explaining the need for flea and heartworm prevention alongside vaccines to a new pet.

4 pm. See 3 more pets. Start thinking about my pile of notes. Start writing my pile of notes. get phone call from other dr asking me to cover for his this Tues.

5 pm. Continue writing notes. Go home finally at 5:30. Send emails to interviews I had been lining up stating that I'm no longer available on Tuesday and try to schedule appropriately. get response back from clinic I had good phone interview with that tehy've been "continuing the process" and have had "significant interests". Cry a little because I had significant interests, too. Send availability for the week after at his request. Maybe its not over.

6-9 pm. Kill things in video games.

10 pm. write this post, watch walking dead, thinking about lost opportunity and what I could have done differently.🙁
 
Here's how my day went:

9 am get to work and see that 3 surgeries are there on a 1 doctor Sun. 2 are spays, 1 is a dental. See that the schedule is solidly booked - 3 appointment clusters at 9, 11, 2, 3, and 4 o'clock (we close at 5). My assistants have gotten blood on all surgeries and catheters on 2 of 3 surgeries. Start seeing rooms. First room is a hyper akita mix. Get anal glanded. Get scratched to heck. do complete comprehensive examination including blood work. Send pet home to have yet another complete comprehensive walk in. See 2 puppy vaccine rooms. Pre-med dental after blood work is finished.

10 am rolls around. Start dental. Start the 2 drop off pets. Dental is an 83 lb dog. Get dog up on table, get defecated on by dog. Have monitoring equipment not work as it should, trouble shoot while continually listening to dog. See hyper pug mix. Listen to hyper pug mix howl and scratch after done. Call owner and wait for them to pick up their dog. Pre-med first spay at the end of this hour.

11 am. See all rooms as scheduled, get started on spay in the middle of the hour. Check all knots and pedicles. Have knot slip off pedicle AFTER being checked twice with no problems or loosening. Quickly find bleeding pedicle. Have an emergency walk in. Golden retriever that is lethargic. Ask assistants to approve blood work and start collecting samples. Recover pet so that assistants can work together to get blood. Pre-med other pet. Get vomited on.

12 pm. See golden. See that there is fluid in the abdomen and the blood pressure is non-existent. See that the color goes pale if pet is not able to pant. Blood is not happening. Get x-rays. See no serosal detail in the abdomen. See fissure lines in the lungs. See enlarged lymph nodes. Give owner prognosis. Owner starts crying and asks if she needs to make a decision. Tell her yes. owner needs to time.

1 pm. Owner still needs some time. Start other spay. 50 lb puppy with lots of fat. Think that this should be my lunch hour. perform spay. ligate both pedicles. Have pedicle slip again. Find bleeder while freaking out. Remember that I am alone and I have no options but i have blood products. Fight back fear and ligate pedicle AGAIN. perform rest of spay with no complication. Take time to go over everything again with golden's owner. Perform euthanasia. Husband brings lunch as I cannot leave - no time to eat. Open soda for SOME type of sugar.

2 pm. see 3 appointments. 2 are comprehensive exams. 1 is a sick rat that followed from my old hospital with chronic respiratory disease. Explain to owner again about different disease possibilities. Get peed on. Have 2 new pets walk in and want to be seen. See new pets. Have 1 puppy that is currently having issues with hypoglycemia with flighty owners. Explain that they had already fixed the hypoglycemia with karo syrup and they must keep it on hand. Explain that the puppy is barely 1.5 lbs and I can't get the blood needed to perform bile acids tests. Explain again that hypoglycemia is not uncommon.

3 pm. See 3 more pets with illnesses. Sneak a bite of food in between while explaining the need for flea and heartworm prevention alongside vaccines to a new pet.

4 pm. See 3 more pets. Start thinking about my pile of notes. Start writing my pile of notes. get phone call from other dr asking me to cover for his this Tues.

5 pm. Continue writing notes. Go home finally at 5:30. Send emails to interviews I had been lining up stating that I'm no longer available on Tuesday and try to schedule appropriately. get response back from clinic I had good phone interview with that tehy've been "continuing the process" and have had "significant interests". Cry a little because I had significant interests, too. Send availability for the week after at his request. Maybe its not over.

6-9 pm. Kill things in video games.

10 pm. write this post, watch walking dead, thinking about lost opportunity and what I could have done differently.🙁

you work in a practice that begins with a b and ends with an anfield?

If so, I am truly sorry. When I worked there I felt like my doctors were always overworked, busy, and not happy. 🙁
 
That is really frustrating, MommaFox. My dad and I don't communicate, but he is on Facebook and I did add him when he requested it. He called my sister last Christmas and asked if I was there, so I willingly talked to him. He ended up asking if he was going to be invited to my wedding (which was in May). Then, at the wedding, my aunt (dad's sister) started telling my sister that it wasn't right that my dad and grandfather weren't there, despite the fact that neither one has been a part of my life for a decade or more. Anyway, I am pretty sure I know where he got the idea that he should be invited and it is super frustrating.

Hopefully you figure it out soon but in the meantime good luck on exams!!


thank you!
 
you work in a practice that begins with a b and ends with an anfield?

If so, I am truly sorry. When I worked there I felt like my doctors were always overworked, busy, and not happy. 🙁

perhaps.

Also, you live in my neck of the woods. If you ever want to go get drinks or anything, send me a PM.
 
you work in a practice that begins with a b and ends with an anfield?

If so, I am truly sorry. When I worked there I felt like my doctors were always overworked, busy, and not happy. 🙁

You took the words from my mouth lol. I must say, I was surprised that y'all do SX on a Sunday. They are always crap hit the fan day bc we are the only place open so we never do SX or schedule drop offs to make way for the madness of sick and dying walk ins
 
So I'm in Finance and we have 500 homework problems assigned to us and we have to do a minimum of 80% to get full credit on the assignment. I have 77% done but all that's left are the super hard problems and by hard I mean hard and in depth I just spent one hour doing 1 question that had 18 parts to it. *weeps* Its due to tomorrow before our final. I just want to give up...
 
You took the words from my mouth lol. I must say, I was surprised that y'all do SX on a Sunday. They are always crap hit the fan day bc we are the only place open so we never do SX or schedule drop offs to make way for the madness of sick and dying walk ins

yeah, its new in this area to do sx. Not happy about it.
 
I'm sorry, Dyachei. 🙁 I think I would have skipped the game-killing-things and just went straight to the bar. Today sounded awful for you.
 
dyachei, that's just, wow, that anyone should have to handle that much solo. a full appointment schedule or a full surgery schedule is one thing, but to have to do both while handling drop-offs and work-ins worries me. like, seriously. for your mental well-being and physical health and ability to process things just as well at the end of the day as at the beginning and to turn around and do it all again. sure, maybe one day once is one thing, but it doesn't seem like this is all that super-extreme of a stress-level day for you based on how things have sounded in the past. please stay safe and healthy. i'm glad you're getting talks from other places. best of luck.
 
So I'm in Finance and we have 500 homework problems assigned to us and we have to do a minimum of 80% to get full credit on the assignment. I have 77% done but all that's left are the super hard problems and by hard I mean hard and in depth I just spent one hour doing 1 question that had 18 parts to it. *weeps* Its due to tomorrow before our final. I just want to give up...

You have to do 400 problems?! I think the only class I have ever done 400 problems for was organic chemistry and I'm talking both semesters.
Do you at least get most of the credit for doing what you have so far?
 
You have to do 400 problems?! I think the only class I have ever done 400 problems for was organic chemistry and I'm talking both semesters.
Do you at least get most of the credit for doing what you have so far?

You get what you've done out of the 200 points for the assignment so 77% * 200 = 154 points
Where as if you do 80% you get the full 200 automatically. So its in my best interest to push and finish the entire 80%.

Oh let me add that is is a graduate level finance course. :barf:
 
You get what you've done out of the 200 points for the assignment so 77% * 200 = 154 points
Where as if you do 80% you get the full 200 automatically. So its in my best interest to push and finish the entire 80%.

Just jot down a bunch of crap that kinda sounds like you were trying to go in the right direction 😛

If it's only 12 questions out of 400 you do that, they'd have to be super meticulous to catch it. Esp if they're very hard question, they should be understanding (unless you need 80% of the answers correct)
 
Just jot down a bunch of crap that kinda sounds like you were trying to go in the right direction 😛

If it's only 12 questions out of 400 you do that, they'd have to be super meticulous to catch it. Esp if they're very hard question, they should be understanding (unless you need 80% of the answers correct)

It all online so correctness is automatically checked and required.
 
It's 12:07 am... Why is there a chainsaw being turned on and off outside?! :eyebrow:
 
Because you live in fl

Although now I feel bad about laughing, because I find myself wishing I was in or near Florida...So fed up with the wind and the cold and then snow up here in the Rockies 🙁
 
Although now I feel bad about laughing, because I find myself wishing I was in or near Florida...So fed up with the wind and the cold and then snow up here in the Rockies 🙁

Meeee too! But I'd prefer to be on the West Coast.
 
Meeee too! But I'd prefer to be on the West Coast.

<3 the west coast, since it's home for me! Unfortunately my cold tolerance is essentially non-existent, so I think I could only handle so-Cal for now...

So, SDN pre-vet vacation to somewhere warm, anyone? Eh? EH?!
 
My arms break out in terribly itchy hives about once a year for absolutely no reason (ok, fine there probably is a reason, but I sure as heck don't know what I'm allergic to)...my face broke out in terribly itchy, like poison ivy itchy, hives on Friday and it still going strong. GRRR I'm determined to not let it ruin my week!
 
I so tired of this "complete and total lack of energy" business. Winter needs to be over now.
 
I so tired of this "complete and total lack of energy" business. Winter needs to be over now.

The best bit I like about this winter is that when I go to care for my horses the water from the faucet freezes on my clothes and then on the ground if I spill any. Can't tell you how many times I almost killed myself on ice that froze in 5 seconds.
 
worst. f*&#ing. migraine. ever.

meds need to kick in NOW.......I have to work all day. 🙁
 
But Rockies = skiing! :naughty:

That's exactly why I moved here! They were all, "SYKE, you'll have to pay double what you did in Oregon if you want to experience *our* powder!" 👎
I've only been twice in the last two years and both times my SO's father treated us. Very generous of him.
 
I never get vacation. But I am having my birthday this year in Vegas in the fall. 👍

Oooo you'll have fun! My friend's fiancé just surprised her with a birthday trip this week. I'm thinking about asking if they'll stuff me in one of their suitcases...
 
Meeee too! But I'd prefer to be on the West Coast.

<3 the west coast, since it's home for me! Unfortunately my cold tolerance is essentially non-existent, so I think I could only handle so-Cal for now...

So, SDN pre-vet vacation to somewhere warm, anyone? Eh? EH?!

It's been chilly in So Cal! We've been dipping into the 30's at night ... our roof and grass is covered in frost in the mornings :scared: and my fingers are so cold they hurt after walking the dogs in the mornings.

Our highs have only been upper 50's to mid 60's which is cold for us!!
 
High of 80 today and then a high of 54 on Sunday....


This weather seriously needs to get its crap together.
 
I had a stupid stupid rant and my phone deleted it.

So here it goes:

I cut ties with my friend because she is very outspoken and it got to the point where she was embarrassing me or saying hurtful comments on a regular basis. I can handle a lot of her other flaws, but bringing up how living with my ex was a mistake in front of my new boyfriend crossed the line. She never shows any hints of sarcasm or joking when she said her comments... until I get visibly upset. We also don't have a lot in common anymore.

The main reason why I was afraid of approaching her is because she always has to be right. When her comments to my face and online were getting out of control, I unfriended her on Facebook. I admit I could have handled that better. I had asked to speak to her in private about everything but it never happened. The main point is that I realized I did something hurtful and I would apologize for it.

All she tells S about what happened is "This is how I interpret it...". Heck no. It doesn't matter what you said. You hurt my feelings and embarrassed me. You should apologize for your behaviour and make an effort to be more appropriate. If someone said your favorite sandals were the ugliest shoes they ever saw and that your high heels look like granny church shoes, you would be a little sensitive too.

When we had our spat, she told me I made her screw-buddy feel uncomfortable at the Halloween party. Now she is saying I made him uncomfortable at her birthday party... by looking at him oddly. I apparently looked at her boyfriend funny too the last party she had.

OH COME ON.

I looked at him funny?
Are you like 5?

Also, get your GD stories straight. This is the second story you changed around since our fight. Changing the scenario a bit to try to make your comments seem supportive rather than hurtful does not make you less at fault.

I am so happy that I am an adult and that I was able to cut her completely out of out of my life. Our friend S is kind of in between and so this is how I hear about these things.

I should have saw this coming. She cheated on her ex and yet found it unreasonable of him to take the cats and all of his condiments when he moved and flip out on her when she tried to bring a screw-buddy into the apartment while he was home. So naturally, it's unreasonable for me to be offended by negative comments made about my diet, where I choose to live, who I dated, who I hang out with, what I say, my body image and what I choose to complain about.

I hope one of your hipster friends gives you what you deserve.
 
I really hope I start working more hours soon! I have been feeding the cats Friskies wet food (in addition to EVO dry) because I can't afford a month's supply of EVO wet food cans for three cats at the current time. 🙁 Even if I took them off the dry food, my kittens are still kittens and would eat me out of house and home at this point. Even working 10 hours a week would allow me to buy them better food versus feeding Friskies and mixing with EVO where I can. Sometimes I think I should simply switch them over to a balanced RAW diet. It'd be easier on my wallet, but I don't necessarily have the freezer space/capacity to grind meat at the moment, and chicken organs are mostly what's available and I have a cat who's allergic to chicken as a primary source of protein (and not sure if that allergy would extend to the organs as well), not to mention I still need to source my RAW products and obtain my supplements in the first place. Feeding cats should not be this hard. 😡

I just want to tell you that Friskies had one of the highest protein contents for cat food out there. It's not wetting to give it to your cats.


High of 80 today and then a high of 54 on Sunday....


This weather seriously needs to get its crap together.

I hate being cold. I miss AZ.
 
High of 80 today and then a high of 54 on Sunday....


This weather seriously needs to get its crap together.

Oh yes Florida needs to figure it self out. I rode my horse in a tank top and riding tights last Friday but the previous Wednesday I had on my thick breeches, under armor, sweater, vest and ear warmers. Thats a two day span.

Also one word, Finance! :scared:
 
I just want to tell you that Friskies had one of the highest protein contents for cat food out there. It's not wetting to give it to your cats.

It's more the grain I'm concerned about than the protein content. One of my cats can't do chicken and the other does not do very well on anything but grain-free foods and my sister's cat also tends to vomit more frequently on any food containing grain as well; he was eating Purina but we switched him to EVO when I got my kittens and his vomiting habits (which vets had previously told us not to be concerned about) stopped completely; they only started up again when I started feeding Friskies, so I'm going to assume it has to do with grain... ? 😕 Because none of my cats have issues when eating grain-free foods, but two out of three do when feeding any food that is not 100% grain-free.
 
It's been chilly in So Cal! We've been dipping into the 30's at night ... our roof and grass is covered in frost in the mornings :scared: and my fingers are so cold they hurt after walking the dogs in the mornings.

Our highs have only been upper 50's to mid 60's which is cold for us!!

Yikes. No one is safe from this cold!
 
It's been chilly in So Cal! We've been dipping into the 30's at night ... our roof and grass is covered in frost in the mornings :scared: and my fingers are so cold they hurt after walking the dogs in the mornings.

Our highs have only been upper 50's to mid 60's which is cold for us!!

I feel absolutely NO sympathy for you. 😛 Our nights recently have been down in the -20's or colder, wind chill. High's of 5 during the day.
 
I feel absolutely NO sympathy for you. 😛 Our nights recently have been down in the -20's or colder, wind chill. High's of 5 during the day.

I lived in MN for 5 years and now I get annoyed when people here (IL) complain about how cold it is. First off, we've had relatively mild winters by IL standards recently. Second, by MN standards, it's been downright beautiful! So quit your complainin'! 😀

I remember one time it was about 25 degrees out in January after weeks of the temperature hovering around 0. I went to the store in a t shirt (no coat) and it took a while for me to realize how insane that would seem to most people. But I wasn't the only one that day. hehe
 
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