You just posted the thread. You need to give people time to respond. It's that kind of impatient that is causing you to stress over things. I was in the middle of writing a reply, then I saw you deleted it, then I deleted mine too.
I just read your post earlier today...you have every right to be stressed and the rant is definitely warranted. I am sure everyone is in the same boat, having a busy Saturday I mean...and not able to post back right away. ???😕